15 Jun 2018, 11:36 am
15 Jun 2018, 11:41 am
15 Jun 2018, 12:16 pm
Booyakasha wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
cberg wrote:
There's love in the picture & that's not easy for anybody to navigate. I said we're forgiving of each other because it's the truth, I guess if anybody were perfect that wouldn't be necessary.
I mean you all think I should go away but what else is new? I don't recall gaining anything from listening to those telling me what's impossible, thanks.
I mean you all think I should go away but what else is new? I don't recall gaining anything from listening to those telling me what's impossible, thanks.
It is mature to accept that we can't always get all we want, and even if you wanted to perseverate in your pursuit of her acting like a servant is ABSOLUTELY the wrong way to go about it, everyone here will tell you.
Absolutely. Unless she's into BDSM and loves to play some kind of matron or whatever it's called, being someone's doormat definitely isn't attractive.
Well that's kind of where things are headed but it's not really the scenario anybody's picturing. I'm just trying to work out my place in the natural progression of these things.
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-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
15 Jun 2018, 12:18 pm
15 Jun 2018, 12:20 pm
cberg wrote:
Booyakasha wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
cberg wrote:
There's love in the picture & that's not easy for anybody to navigate. I said we're forgiving of each other because it's the truth, I guess if anybody were perfect that wouldn't be necessary.
I mean you all think I should go away but what else is new? I don't recall gaining anything from listening to those telling me what's impossible, thanks.
I mean you all think I should go away but what else is new? I don't recall gaining anything from listening to those telling me what's impossible, thanks.
It is mature to accept that we can't always get all we want, and even if you wanted to perseverate in your pursuit of her acting like a servant is ABSOLUTELY the wrong way to go about it, everyone here will tell you.
Absolutely. Unless she's into BDSM and loves to play some kind of matron or whatever it's called, being someone's doormat definitely isn't attractive.
Well that's kind of where things are headed but it's not really the scenario anybody's picturing. I'm just trying to work out my place in the natural progression of these things.uuuuuuh talking about a thread spinning 180 degrees lol
If you need an advice on BDSM, it's definitely in a wrong forum
and I have no clue about that.maybe I should move this to adult autism issues.
15 Jun 2018, 12:27 pm
Simply put we just don't know where that's going right now, she's more into it than I & just happens to be someone I trust enough.
I just told her she's the one with the more constructive ideas around sex & that my deference is a result of appreciation for being challenged a bit. I'm not a doormat, just a weirdo. Probably more like AstroTurf.
_________________
"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
15 Jun 2018, 12:36 pm
cberg wrote:
Simply put we just don't know where that's going right now, she's more into it than I & just happens to be someone I trust enough.
I just told her she's the one with the more constructive ideas around sex & that my deference is a result of appreciation for being challenged a bit. I'm not a doormat, just a weirdo. Probably more like AstroTurf.
I just told her she's the one with the more constructive ideas around sex & that my deference is a result of appreciation for being challenged a bit. I'm not a doormat, just a weirdo. Probably more like AstroTurf.
lol sorry, that changes everything, but you know if you were a bit less beating around the bush and a bit more straightforward it wouldn't take us 6 pages to get to this revelation.
if your question is how to get closer on that level, with whatever that includes, I'm sorry, i'm too vanilla, i have no clue.
15 Jun 2018, 1:06 pm
Well this didn't come up on the first 5 pages ...truth be told I'm really quite a blank slate in these terms, thus the receptivity towards dominant females. More importantly I just want to make sure we're more comfortable with each other.
_________________
"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
15 Jun 2018, 2:04 pm
15 Jun 2018, 2:24 pm
cberg wrote:
Well this didn't come up on the first 5 pages ...truth be told I'm really quite a blank slate in these terms, thus the receptivity towards dominant females. More importantly I just want to make sure we're more comfortable with each other.
...truth be told I'm really quite a blank slate in these terms, thus the receptivity towards dominant females. More importantly I just want to make sure we're more comfortable with each other.so, let's see the evolution of this thread, as stated by you:
pages:
1-2. you're best friends, you want to be a better friend
3-5. you're best friends, you want to be a boyfriend
6. you're BDSM couple and you've come here to ask for an advice on how to be better at it.
i just don't get how will asking for an advice on being a better (boy)friend help you with the kinky sex
15 Jun 2018, 2:29 pm
I dare not think what will the 7th page bring 
you're aliens from the hyperspace and have come here to start a colony?
15 Jun 2018, 2:35 pm
I just said that because I more or less put everything on the table & said I don't care so much what we're lavled as long as we're around each other.
_________________
"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
15 Jun 2018, 2:40 pm
15 Jun 2018, 2:50 pm
Raleigh wrote:
I've read 6+ pages and I still have no idea what's going on.
I'm also quite clueless.
15 Jun 2018, 2:50 pm
15 Jun 2018, 3:29 pm
Some of both honestly. I'm the alien in this equation for sure, I don't expect any of this to be easy but that's got nothing to do with it being worthwhile.
I'm just working on being one of those loyal friendly freaks & not the walled-off outcast sort.
_________________
"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos
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