Guys That Want Virgin Mary Purity

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29 Jun 2018, 9:28 pm

I've never had a specific desire to "devirginize" somebody.

Only one of the girls I slept with was a virgin. The first time was not a very nice experience for her. She did go on to become my first fiancée.



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29 Jun 2018, 9:33 pm

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I’ve never met a male in my life who wants a virgin.

Most guys dream of taking a woman’s virginity or multiple women’s in some guys cases. They keep track of it and brag(those some guys)
I’d like a Virgin woman cause I’m basically a Virgin, so we’d be similarly experienced.


Most guys? Or some guys? Most normal guys want someone with experience to match from my life experience.

It’s usually creeps who make fetishes of young ladies’ virginity.

You want a virgin for sensible reasons, not creepy reasons.


Most guys ever met or talked to express such desire and find the idea of taking a woman’s virginity hot. They’d never say so in front of women though, so it’s not surprising you wouldn’t know.
Being able to get virgins is one of the reasons why some terrorist sacrifice themselves. At leas that's the stereotype.


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30 Jun 2018, 5:29 am

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Seriously men seem to be able to have a collection of partners while the women are having to be limited.


I don't know any male friends and acquaintances close to me that think like that in the moment. That strikes me as an extremely archaic way of thinking against men if I you please excuse my honesty.


I must agree. I haven't met many young men who want virgins. Perhaps this was a common requirement in the 1950s.


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30 Jun 2018, 6:09 am

Retrogamer. Seriously. Having children doesn’t wear down someone’s vagina. Vaginas are stretchy. But they clamp up like a vice if they want to.



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30 Jun 2018, 7:11 am

Peacesells wrote:
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I know how desperate virgins think because I was one.

If they were so desperate they wouldn't have such standards, don't you think?
Also weren't you the guy who was having second thoughts on another third world girl because she was a mother and you were afraid that her vagina was worn down?
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A person can be honest about what they want and still be a hypocrite. A lot of these guys who aren't virgins but want a woman to be a virgin do have a low opinion of women who aren't virgins that they don't hold for themselves. They do think those women are of loose morals or impure or "sl#ts" used goods when they don't think that way of themselves because they believe, by virtue of the fact that they are male, they are exempt from concepts of sexual purity.

And stop playing the psychologist tyring to analyze whatever they think or don't think tyring to find a reason to feel offended. Unless they go around insulting people mind your damn business, and rejecting someone because you want something else in a partner is not insulting. Stop playing the victim, it makes me wanna puke.


I don't have to play psychologist or analyze what they think because these men I am speaking of have told me flat out. That is called "female experience".



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30 Jun 2018, 7:17 am

Chronos wrote:
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I know how desperate virgins think because I was one.

If they were so desperate they wouldn't have such standards, don't you think?
Also weren't you the guy who was having second thoughts on another third world girl because she was a mother and you were afraid that her vagina was worn down?
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A person can be honest about what they want and still be a hypocrite. A lot of these guys who aren't virgins but want a woman to be a virgin do have a low opinion of women who aren't virgins that they don't hold for themselves. They do think those women are of loose morals or impure or "sl#ts" used goods when they don't think that way of themselves because they believe, by virtue of the fact that they are male, they are exempt from concepts of sexual purity.

And stop playing the psychologist tyring to analyze whatever they think or don't think tyring to find a reason to feel offended. Unless they go around insulting people mind your damn business, and rejecting someone because you want something else in a partner is not insulting. Stop playing the victim, it makes me wanna puke.


I don't have to play psychologist or analyze what they think because these men I am speaking of have told me flat out. That is called "female experience".

You're basically going AMALT. Experience is subjective, if some woman is a jerk to me should I say that all women are? I see that people say this to "nice guys" here but when a woman makes similar generalizations you probably think it's fine.



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30 Jun 2018, 7:32 am

Peacesells wrote:
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I know how desperate virgins think because I was one.

If they were so desperate they wouldn't have such standards, don't you think?
Also weren't you the guy who was having second thoughts on another third world girl because she was a mother and you were afraid that her vagina was worn down?
Chronos wrote:
A person can be honest about what they want and still be a hypocrite. A lot of these guys who aren't virgins but want a woman to be a virgin do have a low opinion of women who aren't virgins that they don't hold for themselves. They do think those women are of loose morals or impure or "sl#ts" used goods when they don't think that way of themselves because they believe, by virtue of the fact that they are male, they are exempt from concepts of sexual purity.

And stop playing the psychologist tyring to analyze whatever they think or don't think tyring to find a reason to feel offended. Unless they go around insulting people mind your damn business, and rejecting someone because you want something else in a partner is not insulting. Stop playing the victim, it makes me wanna puke.


I don't have to play psychologist or analyze what they think because these men I am speaking of have told me flat out. That is called "female experience".

You're basically going AMALT. Experience is subjective, if some woman is a jerk to me should I say that all women are? I see that people say this to "nice guys" here but when a woman makes similar generalizations you probably think it's fine.


I did not say all men or most men or generalize the male demographic at large in any way. I addressed the very specific subset I was speaking of...

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A lot of these guys who aren't virgins but want a woman to be a virgin do have a low opinion of women who aren't virgins that they don't hold for themselves.


And no, seeing a man who is not virgin and maintains he is not sexually immoral or impure call women a woman a sl#t or sexually immoral or impure because she is not a virgin is not a subjective experience. It's pretty straight foward actually.



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30 Jun 2018, 7:48 am

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I did not say all men or most men or generalize the male demographic at large in any way. I addressed the very specific subset I was speaking of...

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A lot of these guys who aren't virgins but want a woman to be a virgin do have a low opinion of women who aren't virgins that they don't hold for themselves.


And no, seeing a man who is not virgin and maintains he is not sexually immoral or impure call women a woman a sl#t or sexually immoral or impure because she is not a virgin is not a subjective experience. It's pretty straight foward actually.

You are completely misrepresenting my point. You are not addressing all men, but you are talking as if ALL men who only want a virgin while not being virgin themselves think like this and will run around calling women sluts. That's a generalization.
Perhaps you had bad experiences and can't think about this rationally.
Besides, as I said one is entitled to have his or her preferences, like when Sly complains about women in his situation who demand a guy who makes more.



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30 Jun 2018, 7:53 am

Chronos wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
I know how desperate virgins think because I was one.

If they were so desperate they wouldn't have such standards, don't you think?
Also weren't you the guy who was having second thoughts on another third world girl because she was a mother and you were afraid that her vagina was worn down?
Chronos wrote:
A person can be honest about what they want and still be a hypocrite. A lot of these guys who aren't virgins but want a woman to be a virgin do have a low opinion of women who aren't virgins that they don't hold for themselves. They do think those women are of loose morals or impure or "sl#ts" used goods when they don't think that way of themselves because they believe, by virtue of the fact that they are male, they are exempt from concepts of sexual purity.

And stop playing the psychologist tyring to analyze whatever they think or don't think tyring to find a reason to feel offended. Unless they go around insulting people mind your damn business, and rejecting someone because you want something else in a partner is not insulting. Stop playing the victim, it makes me wanna puke.


I don't have to play psychologist or analyze what they think because these men I am speaking of have told me flat out. That is called "female experience".



You mean Jewish men.



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30 Jun 2018, 7:56 am

Peacesells wrote:
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I did not say all men or most men or generalize the male demographic at large in any way. I addressed the very specific subset I was speaking of...

Chronos said wrote:
A lot of these guys who aren't virgins but want a woman to be a virgin do have a low opinion of women who aren't virgins that they don't hold for themselves.


And no, seeing a man who is not virgin and maintains he is not sexually immoral or impure call women a woman a sl#t or sexually immoral or impure because she is not a virgin is not a subjective experience. It's pretty straight foward actually.

You are completely misrepresenting my point. You are not addressing all men, but you are talking as if ALL men who only want a virgin while not being virgin themselves think like this and will run around calling women sluts. That's a generalization.
Perhaps you had bad experiences and can't think about this rationally.
Besides, as I said one is entitled to have his or her preferences, like when Sly complains about women in his situation who demand a guy who makes more.


I don't see where the word "many" becomes "ALL". Perhaps you are just feeling attacked and so are a bit defensive?



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30 Jun 2018, 8:02 am

Hahahaha peaceaells, I was a virgin until marriage. Still married. He was one too.



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30 Jun 2018, 8:11 am

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I don't see where the word "many" becomes "ALL". Perhaps you are just feeling attacked and so are a bit defensive?

If you agree with me then what is the point you were trying to make and what are we talking about? We all know that some guys are jerks and that's hardly up to debate.

And why would I feel attacked?
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Hahahaha peaceaells, I was a virgin until marriage. Still married. He was one too.

Oh, I thought you were butthurt about some personal experience, I apologize. :lol:



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30 Jun 2018, 12:19 pm

Peacesells, interestingly enough when I was single, I was a dating a divorced single parent who seemed to think virgins were the only worthwhile women....we broke it off as I grew tired of his fundamentalist Christian viewpoints. He believed the sex act defiled the woman....so no doubt he would keep going through females. This hang-up on virginity was more of a sick fetish.

My mother in law was insistent on a Virgin for her son....so yeah I had my fill of it.



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30 Jun 2018, 12:25 pm

People are free to reject dating partners for any reason.

If a player chooses only to date virgins....his prerogative. Big question is he honest with these women about his status? Women need to be able to make an informed decision. Plus some women DON'T want an inexperienced man....

If you really like the woman, chances are you don't care how many miles her odometer has. If you are looking to score, there may be a thrill in being the one to take a gal's virginity.



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30 Jun 2018, 12:38 pm

"Sex defiles the woman"?! :scratch:

What kinda dain-bramaged paleo-human would make a statement like that?


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30 Jun 2018, 1:57 pm

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I’ve never met a male in my life who wants a virgin.
Ahhh finally! on the 5th page. I've been like 8O There haven't been any voluntary virgins (adult) here for over a hundred years. I'm not even (technically) a virgin but if I do end up in a relationship and I have to explain my lack of experience I'm expecting to meet with total disbelief followed by hysterical laughter.

Please warn these men not to come to the UK, seriously, they will be very disappointed.