Just because you're single doesn't mean you're loveless.

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No one is undateable. If you knew some of the guys and girls I know who are in relationships, you’d agree with me.

Please point out where I have been sexist.

Reread your comment to understand why.

Please explain how I have demonized anyone and how my thinking is black and white and I only make binary choices.

OH AND PEOPLE STOP TALKING ABOUT THE WORLD CUP THIS IS NOT THE WORLD CUP THREAD, I WILL REPORT YOU ALL

Again, positive thread, nobody must prove anything to you. You said guys like myself should know to put women "in their place" & I found that disgusting. Thus I'm a few steps past seriously considering your thought process.

Sometimes that depends on who’s perspective it is.

I’m autistic. I don’t Feel like an alpha male. But I do hangout with some True alphas at the beach, so there is that influence.

Anyways, last week I was coming in from a brief swim and a couple hot girls approached me and told me the group of guys behind them were making them uncomfortable with their staring and sort of cat calling antics. There were 4 of them. Keep in mind: this is a nude beach, myself and these girls are nude, and creeping on people is dealt with swiftly via Beach Justice.

The girls went on their way, I went and let one of my friends know I was about to go tell those guys wtf is up just in case I needed backup. I knew their type/culture and that they are.. generally very forward and rude to women. (And may not have realized the offence they caused because their culture acts.. very inappropriately towards some - so much so that some local flights were nearly canceled due to their harassing flight attendants - so it’s a real phenomenon, not my bias) I walked right up to them and told them they Cannot make girls feel uncomfortable on the beach with their stares and hollers or they Will leave, and like everyone else they have two choices of how they leave: walk up the 480 stairs, or leave on a hovercraft. (Which is code for: “because you won’t be able to walk up the stairs.”)

They got the picture, appologized, cowered and walked away peacefully.

I want back to our spot and this naked helijet pilot dude is all giving me props with this “Whoa! Way to lay the Alpha down! You just walked up to those guys and Told them what was what and they couldn’t walk away fast enough!! !” As he’s fist bumping me.


“Hmm, I guess so.” I thought. Meanwhile all I did was simply what was right to do. I do have the advantage of having done somewhere around a quarter million pushups since I started doing them daily - so, my appearance says alpha to them regardless of what I think.

So, you never know. It depends on who’s perspective and perception we’re judging from.

I may be wrong (I often am) but it seems that so many who post their relationship (or lack thereof) grievances here also firmly believe that just because they're single that they do not, and cannot, have any love in their life.

I've been single forever & in all probability always will be, BUT, I have plenty of love in my life, and always will. IMO, too many people here think that the only type of fulfilling love is that which is reciprocated between romantic life partners.. and that simply isn't so.

I have friends, family, God kids (especially!), nephews & nieces to love, and so many of them express theirs right back to me. It makes me wonder if some of you aren't just simply overlooking people in your lives that you love & love you in return, how much of that magic you're missing out on because you're hyper-focused on the fact that you're single. Hopefully this thread can be a reminder to you that there's plenty more love in the world than that between life partners, and you can freely give your love to those you love, as well as receive it from those who love you, too.

Peace out like your name says. Now you are whining, bye. Whine to me if you want, I'm a good listener but your word choices normalize violence against women & that's gross.

Well whatever that's a classless way of suggesting as much. In the states when you say someone is outside 'their place' it's considered no small threat.

:lol:

sorry, i couldn't find the FIFA thread, too much excitement, my poor nerves lol

I have no obligation whatsoever to use a classy or sophisticated register on a random internet forum.
To put someone in their place universally means that you show them that they are not as powerful/smart/important/etc as they think, not that you use violence against them, this is pure mistification and a straw man. Your language against me was much more aggressive and unjustified.

Psst... have you watched this:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=G3s_mFc-94A

Maybe don't publicly emasculate your fellow man? I really can't help you I'm just a soy boy.

I'd rather build people in my life up rather than break them down.

Well I did just get back from a hippie effigy burning but it wasn't about one person.

i can tell you this - treating someone as better than yourself will only annoy them, unless they're narcissistic twats.

this effigy business, worshipping women as idols and calling it "love" - how has it worked for you so far, apart from the BDSM thing?