15 Nov 2020, 7:47 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
DeMoM77 wrote:
... I'd told my boyfriend about it and he was disgusted when I told him. So I'm not understanding why he'd do it. He did try to cover his soon-to-be ex with an emoji but the mirrors behind the tub showed everything.. It's two problems om dealing with..
1. She was naked in his house when they are legally separated..
2. He took the picture...
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.. I do still love him dearly but that broke my heart...
1. She was naked in his house when they are legally separated..
2. He took the picture...
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.. I do still love him dearly but that broke my heart...
Failing to compute this.
Let me help you. She has a new boy friend who is disgusted by naked women and she seems kind of angry at another guy who isn't. She says she loves the one who isn't disgusted and because she loves him dearly she left him for a month for him having fun with his naked ex in his bath again. Of course I can't tell whether she wants help for starting a threesome now or for causing him to send more pics ...
But because any advice is appreciated by her and I think she knows very well that his ex knew what she did and that he let her in because he's a guy and possibly not gay let me try this too.
Depending on her feelings she may suggest him
- to kick his ex for coming back
- a threesome with her
- a relationship with her friend who dislikes women
- to send more pics
I don't really see more options except of moving on and looking for a new friend.
I wonder whether it is MFF threesome or MMF
.Yeah, maybe it was a three-way invitation.
My mind doesn't work that way. <shrug>
15 Nov 2020, 11:00 pm
HighVamp913 wrote:
I give her space I come back and she is drinking. What am I supposed to do about that? She knows she is not supposed to be drinking. She knows I don't like when she drinks. :/ I care for her to give her space but she shouldnt be drinking . She knows that.
. She knows that.Do you like how this is making you feel?
I'm going to venture a guess the answer is no, but really ask yourself do you enjoy this on some level? If the answer is truly no then protect your peace and conserve your energy and just know people are free-agents in their own destiny and her problems aren't your problems and she's not explicitly asking for your help. She's capable of living the life she wants to live and no one can really impose their will on others. These kinds of patterns suck the life out of people and your time is more valuable than that.
