Turn-offs

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That wasn't what I was referring to. I was referring to those people, usually religious fundamentalists, who refuse to try certain sexual things because "their religion forbids it", or thinking it will bring shame to their family, etc.

Are you just basing everyone on one person you had a bad experience with?

Oh no you di'int, @Sound! Actually, I think we're giving advice for different situations. Your approach seems to relate to how to approach compromise when it comes to sex/sexual preferences. I totally agree with your advice.

I read Tim_Tex's question as asking what to do when attempts at compromise have failed - I do think it's best to move on when that happens.

Well, you have two choices: stay in the relationship knowing your sexual needs will not be met; find another partner who is willing to meet your sexual needs.

As I said, that's possibly more a cultural thing, around here it's not unusual for four generations (grandparents, parents, children and grandchildren) to live together in the same home...

What about adult men who live with their in-laws?

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Yeah, true. That would be fine, in Western European countries, US, UK, Aus, NZ, it's considered strange to be living with your parents when you're working/finished being a student.

I like a woman who is nice and placid and feminine and loves masculinity so much that she doesn't feel the need to discuss what kind of men she likes with other men. She just goes with what she feels is right; she likes to be swept off her feet and passionately embraced. Yes, indeed; this is what I like.

Liberal girls turn me way off. Girls with short hair, and I mean short enough to pass as a boy.

I didn't realize smoking was a turn off for so many people! I'm an on again off again smoker, so I don't know what to call myself. I guess my biggest turn offs would be guys who don't like animals and people who are really judgmental/close minded. The sort of people/guys who have really strong opinions and aren't open to hearing others, while theirs are very poorly based. Physical turn offs...really long hair on guys, and guys who pants are so low you can see their crack

Ah! I see now. My bad.

Though, I personally doubt you have to worry much about this... My impression(possibly wrong?) is that most people don't let their faith intrude in their sex life.


Ooh, Good point. Misunderstood, then. Yep, agreed again, as usual.

Dude your trolling style is really feelin old. Mix it up a bit, troll in some other manner, else you'll get typecast, and wont be able to flex the range of roles you can troll from. Gotta keep it fresh.


Send em my way!!

My biggest turn off is women who tan so often I believe that I believe that their skin is akin to cow hide.

Which is sadly way too common down here.

What are you talking about?

Spain is western.

i know i'll never have friends or boyfriends in my life, but these are what turn me off from people (and what i stay away from):

1) arrogance/cockiness/big ego
2) ignorance/one-track mind
3) smokers
4) addicts (alcohol/drugs/sex, etc.)
5) aggression/violence
6) dishonesty
7) fakeness (personality/physically)
8 ) misogyny/sexism
9) attention whores
10) dominance
11) materialism
12) irresponsibility
13) lack of judgment/no common sense/stupidity
14) promiscuity
15) infidelity

all that and everything else that comes with them.

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According to some of its detractors (no, I'm not one of them), Spain is part of Africa...