Are there even any women that approach men?

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23 Sep 2011, 12:06 pm

Women approaching men is extremely rare. Even if they do they will merely make subtle compliments such as 'I like your shirt' or 'that's a good book you are reading' or 'I admire how you put up with all this noise' or something like that. Then they'd expect the man to talk to them and ask them out or at least get their number. They will get frustrated if you don't figure it out and instead just stand there like an idiot.

Women who literally hit on men are usually in bars, drunk, and looking for sex. And oh yeah they are VERY likely to have STDs.

That's the truth.

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23 Sep 2011, 12:09 pm

Dilbert wrote:

Haha, i remember some girl (she was really nice looking) putting her hand on my shoulder to stop me as i was walking through a group of people in a nightclub and saying she liked my tshirt( a radiohead one), i just looked at her in confusion and carried on walking. Ah well, i probably wouldnt have been able to talk to her anyway.

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23 Sep 2011, 12:15 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

I'm going to report you if you don't stop egging people on.

Go for it.

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I didn't say anything about the guy being Awkward or creepy.

You said sleazy, which is a synonym.

No, it isn't. Sleazy has a completely different meaning to both of those.

definition of sleazy wrote:

sordid, corrupt, or immoral

definition of awkward wrote:

lacking social grace and assurance

definition of creepy wrote:

Annoyingly unpleasant; repulsive

the google is of great assistance. the definitions are not even close.

SadAspy, stop baiting other members.

EDIT: one of my titles was incorrect on a quoted definition

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23 Sep 2011, 12:21 pm

Dilbert wrote:

Women approaching men is extremely rare. Even if they do they will merely make subtle compliments such as 'I like your shirt' or 'that's a good book you are reading' or 'I admire how you put up with all this noise' or something like that. Then they'd expect the man to talk to them and ask them out or at least get their number. They will get frustrated if you don't figure it out and instead just stand there like an idiot.

Women who literally hit on men are usually in bars, drunk, and looking for sex. And oh yeah they are VERY likely to have STDs.

That's the truth.

whaaaaaat? stats on that (bolded) could support your case if you are going to assert it as truth. sounds like a whole lot of speculation.

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23 Sep 2011, 12:26 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

I'm going to report you if you don't stop egging people on.

Go for it.

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I didn't say anything about the guy being Awkward or creepy.

You said sleazy, which is a synonym.

No, it isn't. Sleazy has a completely different meaning to both of those.

definition of sleazy wrote:

sordid, corrupt, or immoral

definition of sleazy wrote:

lacking social grace and assurance

definition of creepy wrote:

Annoyingly unpleasant; repulsive

Yeah, I didn't say they were exactly alike. My point stands: that women use certain unflattering adjectives to describe unattractive men who hit on them. In her case, she used "sleazy." I've heard many other women use "awkward" and/or "creepy."

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SadAspy, stop baiting other members.

How about they stop baiting me? Because the sisterhood always looks out for its own first.

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23 Sep 2011, 12:31 pm

SadAspy wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

I'm going to report you if you don't stop egging people on.

Go for it.

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I didn't say anything about the guy being Awkward or creepy.

You said sleazy, which is a synonym.

No, it isn't. Sleazy has a completely different meaning to both of those.

definition of sleazy wrote:

sordid, corrupt, or immoral

definition of sleazy wrote:

lacking social grace and assurance

definition of creepy wrote:

Annoyingly unpleasant; repulsive

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SadAspy, stop baiting other members.

How about they stop baiting me? Because the sisterhood always looks out for its own first.

I've already explained to you that isn't what I meant, several times. I'm not going to do it again.
I don't see how me talking about my experience with a non socially awkward non ugly male was baiting you, tbh, but feel free to live in your own world. I won't be replying to you again.

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23 Sep 2011, 12:31 pm

SadAspy wrote:

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SadAspy, stop baiting other members.

How about they stop baiting me? Because the sisterhood always looks out for its own first.

nobody baits you. and there is not favouritism towards women either - i warn women just like i warn men on here. so you can put aside the idea of any 'sisterhood' on here.

you come into threads and bait other members, disparage women, and generally create whatever problems you can manage. this needs to stop. if you have constructive input, that is welcomed. but if your purpose is to flame the opposite gender, it is not welcome.

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23 Sep 2011, 12:33 pm

Shush kids!

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23 Sep 2011, 12:35 pm

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Shush kids!

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23 Sep 2011, 1:02 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

I won't be replying to you again.

You know you can't resist me.

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23 Sep 2011, 1:08 pm

SadAspy wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

I won't be replying to you again.

You know you can't resist me.

lol

somebody wants attention.

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23 Sep 2011, 1:11 pm

Trigas wrote:

lol

somebody wants attention.

What's wrong with that? I get much more attention from women being an obnoxious jerk than I ever got from being my formerly nice self.

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23 Sep 2011, 1:15 pm

SadAspy wrote:

Trigas wrote:

lol

somebody wants attention.

What's wrong with that? I get much more attention from women being an obnoxious jerk than I ever got from being my formerly nice self.

Be yourself man :-D

I get more women being a nice guy than being an obnoxious jerk, you just have to learn how to flaunt it

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23 Sep 2011, 1:23 pm

bigcoop wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

Trigas wrote:

lol

somebody wants attention.

What's wrong with that? I get much more attention from women being an obnoxious jerk than I ever got from being my formerly nice self.

Be yourself man :-D

I get more women being a nice guy than being an obnoxious jerk, you just have to learn how to flaunt it

Exactly

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23 Sep 2011, 1:25 pm

Trigas wrote:

bigcoop wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

Trigas wrote:

lol

somebody wants attention.

What's wrong with that? I get much more attention from women being an obnoxious jerk than I ever got from being my formerly nice self.

Be yourself man :-D

I get more women being a nice guy than being an obnoxious jerk, you just have to learn how to flaunt it

Exactly

Gotta love it when these younger guys try to encourage me. Let's see how positive you are when you're my age and have gotten nothing.

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23 Sep 2011, 1:36 pm

SadAspy wrote:

Trigas wrote:

bigcoop wrote:

SadAspy wrote:

Trigas wrote:

lol

somebody wants attention.

What's wrong with that? I get much more attention from women being an obnoxious jerk than I ever got from being my formerly nice self.

Be yourself man :-D

I get more women being a nice guy than being an obnoxious jerk, you just have to learn how to flaunt it

Exactly

Gotta love it when these younger guys try to encourage me. Let's see how positive you are when you're my age and have gotten nothing.

Your nickname is SadAspy, sounds like you embrace it. It all starts with attitude. Attitude is the single most important aspect in someone's day to day life because you can adjust it. Put yourself in a positive environment mentally and physically and I know you can find someone. Go into the dating scene with an open mind and a positive attitude man, you can do it :-D

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