So I met someone last night, any tips?

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09 May 2007, 10:44 am

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Aww.

:(

Your day will come Mr. Lord!

In fact, we should start a "Find Aspie for the Lord a girl" thread!

:D



uhm.................................hahahaha.......thats what Aspie Afection is for.


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09 May 2007, 7:01 pm

im already on there...

and ive winked every lady within a viable distance from me on there who isnt too old.... and still no joy...

been waiting over 6 weeks or so... :?


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09 May 2007, 11:03 pm

Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
im already on there...

and ive winked every lady within a viable distance from me on there who isnt too old.... and still no joy...

been waiting over 6 weeks or so... :?


Your day will come Aftl. your day will come.


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10 May 2007, 3:26 am

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hehehe, I just mean I got a first, second, third and I don't know how many other kisses.

lol.

:)

I'm definitely the proud participant in an official relationship now.

:D



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10 May 2007, 5:22 am

Gamester wrote:
Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
im already on there...

and ive winked every lady within a viable distance from me on there who isnt too old.... and still no joy...

been waiting over 6 weeks or so... :?


Your day will come Aftl. your day will come.


:roll:

i have as much chance of finding someone who will want me as i would have visiting Loch Ness and seeing a UFO crash into the Loch Ness monster and Elvis stepping out to do battle with Big Foot...


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10 May 2007, 6:25 am

Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:

i have as much chance of finding someone who will want me as i would have visiting Loch Ness and seeing a UFO crash into the Loch Ness monster and Elvis stepping out to do battle with Big Foot...


Are you planning on going there soon?



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10 May 2007, 10:41 am

Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
Gamester wrote:
Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
im already on there...

and ive winked every lady within a viable distance from me on there who isnt too old.... and still no joy...

been waiting over 6 weeks or so... :?


Your day will come Aftl. your day will come.


:roll:

i have as much chance of finding someone who will want me as i would have visiting Loch Ness and seeing a UFO crash into the Loch Ness monster and Elvis stepping out to do battle with Big Foot...


8) 8) 8) :lol:

come on Aftl. you put yourself up way to high on that one. I honestly think you've got a great chance.

I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 17. and my next one wasn't until first semester of this past year....mind you that it lasted about a month......


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10 May 2007, 9:10 pm

Yep.

Until recently I was single for a VERY long time.

It might be few and far between, but it happens nonetheless so don't give up!

:)

Oh and Eclair and Calandale:

:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:


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10 May 2007, 9:24 pm

Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
i have as much chance of finding someone who will want me as i would have visiting Loch Ness and seeing a UFO crash into the Loch Ness monster and Elvis stepping out to do battle with Big Foot...


Actually that happened to a friend of mine.



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11 May 2007, 2:56 am

Todd489 wrote:
Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
i have as much chance of finding someone who will want me as i would have visiting Loch Ness and seeing a UFO crash into the Loch Ness monster and Elvis stepping out to do battle with Big Foot...


Actually that happened to a friend of mine.


you mean they found someone who would want me? 8O

:lol:

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seriously though, at least you guys have actually have had people showing interest in the past... i have never had anyone show interest...in any way...

the empirical evidence is against me....


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11 May 2007, 5:25 am

s**t, man. I don't know what to say. It's not
that damned hard, if your standards are low.



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11 May 2007, 5:35 am

calandale wrote:
sh**, man. I don't know what to say. It's not
that damned hard, if your standards are low.


my standard arnt high... i cant afford to be fussy...

but even women who make me feel 'Ewww' blank and ignore me as well as the attractive ones...

it appears not to be my standards, but the universal standards of Womenkind

all i require is that they are a Christian (i dont have a choice in this, as being a christian i cannot date/marry an unbeliever), and capable of being loyal, and being 'around' my age - 20's, but saying that i would be prepared to go from 16 to late 30's (even though i'd feel a bit creepy going too young or old than i feel completely comfortable with)...

i dont require them to be smart, attractive, tall, or have any impressive characteristics... and i am prepared to accept defects both physical and phycological...
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Saying all that, even people on these scales blank and ignore me as if i am somthing nasty on their shoe...

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11 May 2007, 5:49 am

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all i require is that they are a Christian (i dont have a choice in this, as being a christian i cannot date/marry an unbeliever)


And there you are. Let me guess - you don't consider all those who claim to
be Christian to be so? I mean, here in the US, something around 90% claim it,
however meagerly.

That's like me insisting on a wargamer (which I do). Doesn't the idea
of converting someone raise any level of excitement?



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11 May 2007, 5:56 am

calandale wrote:
Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
all i require is that they are a Christian (i dont have a choice in this, as being a christian i cannot date/marry an unbeliever)


And there you are. Let me guess - you don't consider all those who claim to
be Christian to be so? I mean, here in the US, something around 90% claim it,
however meagerly.

That's like me insisting on a wargamer (which I do). Doesn't the idea
of converting someone raise any level of excitement?


im not against the possability of converting someone then dating them.... but as even unbelievers blank me and ignore me at the moment, it would be pretty hard to do.

its nothing to do with my standards... even if i had NONE, they still all ignore me in a 'i want to date you' way... i have plenty of over 40 year olds who want to become my mum though.... :lol:


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12 May 2007, 1:24 am

So uh, Calandale and Eclair, I think you missed my emoticon code just before so let me try again:

:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:


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12 May 2007, 1:38 am

4? Sounds like a homer.

Congrats.