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18 Jan 2023, 6:24 pm

Maybe I would be better of meeting women on the spectrum in an autism meet up group.

We might actually have some common ground



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18 Jan 2023, 6:29 pm

I mean when I go to nightclubs in particular I am treated like a second class citizen by the door staff etc….When I tried to get into a busey nightclub on my own 5 years ago I was turned away from the door even though I was totally sober.



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18 Jan 2023, 6:30 pm

That's the point. They want women in there and rich guys with money to spend. They want riff-raff out of there.



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18 Jan 2023, 6:31 pm

r00tb33r wrote:
That's the point. They want women in there and rich guys with money to spend. They want riff-raff out of there.




Maybe in America but I am not sure if that’s how things work in the UK?



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18 Jan 2023, 6:34 pm

In some clubs where you pay to enter hot girls are literally allowed in for free, and it's for the bouncers to size them up.



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18 Jan 2023, 6:38 pm

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In some clubs where you pay to enter hot girls are literally allowed in for free, and it's for the bouncers to size them up.




But don’t anti discrimination laws prevent things such as hot women getting in for free etc. For example I think there are anti discrimination policies stoping clubs from turning people away because they are a certain ethnic race. Why should that also not apply to ugly girls being not let in?



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18 Jan 2023, 6:39 pm

Jamesy wrote:
But don’t anti discrimination laws

:lol: :lmao:

Dude. We live in the real world, remember?



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18 Jan 2023, 6:41 pm

r00tb33r wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
But don’t anti discrimination laws

:lol: :lmao:

Dude. We live in the real world, remember?



So basically your saying those laws are totally useless?



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18 Jan 2023, 6:44 pm

Jamesy wrote:
r00tb33r wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
But don’t anti discrimination laws

:lol: :lmao:

Dude. We live in the real world, remember?



So basically your saying those laws are totally useless?

You have to understand when laws are enforceable, and when not.

Sure, anti-discrimination laws can realistically be enforced say at a workplace. It's not realistic to enforce it in line outside a nightclub. Who are you going to sue? For what damages? And how do you prove your claim?



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18 Jan 2023, 8:43 pm

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In some clubs where you pay to enter hot girls are literally allowed in for free, and it's for the bouncers to size them up.


They let girls in nightclubs? :scratch:
What's the drinking age?


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18 Jan 2023, 9:09 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
r00tb33r wrote:
In some clubs where you pay to enter hot girls are literally allowed in for free, and it's for the bouncers to size them up.


They let girls in nightclubs? :scratch:
What's the drinking age?

Hot females over drinking age can be referred to as 'girls'.



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18 Jan 2023, 9:25 pm

Oh they can?
Only the hot ones?

Did the boys decide this?


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18 Jan 2023, 9:52 pm

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Did the boys decide this?


Of course.
But they don't mind being called boys when they're acting this way. Men have responsibilities but boys will be boys. :lol:


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18 Jan 2023, 10:06 pm

They equate female sexiness with children?
That's whacked.


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19 Jan 2023, 2:56 am

Jamesy wrote:
So basically your saying those laws are totally useless?


The laws apply, In Australia a bouncer can't tell a girl she's ugly or tell a black guy "no blacks'
The easy way around it is they claim to have a dress code. That way they only let in rich guys with cash and hot girls.



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19 Jan 2023, 2:57 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Oh they can?
Only the hot ones?

Did the boys decide this?


This could be cultural. In Australia we say "girls". heck even my mother talks about her friends as "girls" and they are in their 80s.