How do I know if he want to hang out with again

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Juan
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23 Nov 2009, 10:00 pm

I met a man not long ago.
And we went out several times.
He is sweet and I like him a lot.
But I don't know if he has the same feelings for me.
I sent him messages to ask if he has time to go out.
He didn't reply.
So I don't know if he still want to go out with me.

Is there anyone can help me?

Thank you very much!!



Daniella
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24 Nov 2009, 9:24 am

Well, be patient and try not to become obsessed... He will reply if he wants to go out, and not if he is either busy or doesn't want to go out. If he doesn't reply you could always try texting him in a week, asking again. But let there be some time in between your messages, or you'll seem desperate, which might just push him away. In short... don't spam him with texts if he doesn't reply, and try to think of something else to pass your time with. Easier said than done, I know.



Juan
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24 Nov 2009, 11:07 am

Thank you very much!

I think that may be the "He is not that into you" issue.

I'm trying to not bother him by the messages.

And I think I have to wait him to ask me out.

If he really cares about me.

I think he will contact me again.

Is that right??