I now will try to be alone for awhile.

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16 Apr 2006, 10:43 pm

I know everyone knows who desperate I've been well after many of my friends here and by email have told me that I need to love my self. That I need to stop pushing things. That I don't need to be rushing things. That I need to pull my self together. I really have a lot of things that I don't think a girl would want out of me. I need to gather my self together before I consider someone. My social life on the other hand well I have none. I don't have many friends that aren't on the internet. Only two friends that are so busy with their life that they don't have time to hang out with me. I'm so got no one to talk to outside of my family and here. I'm trying to live a life as I once did before I tried to find someone but I don't know if I'll be happy. I'm still depressed. I haven't thought of killing my self in over a month now. So who knows someone might find me. I love you all as much as a friend could to other friends.


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16 Apr 2006, 11:34 pm

Remember that suggestion that I made earlier: Set yourself a goal to form a light temporary relationship with someone, a relationship that you specifically know, expect, and accept will end after a while. None of this eternal commitment for life business, you are much too young for that. This should help you learn via experience that you do not need to quickly become strongly attached in order to be happy.



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16 Apr 2006, 11:38 pm

emp wrote:
Remember that suggestion that I made earlier: Set yourself a goal to form a light temporary relationship with someone, a relationship that you specifically know, expect, and accept will end after a while. None of this eternal commitment for life business, you are much too young for that. This should help you learn via experience that you do not need to quickly become strongly attached in order to be happy.


Thanks. You are how old again? :lol:


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16 Apr 2006, 11:42 pm

I just turned 10 a week ago. I had fairy bread for my birthday!

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16 Apr 2006, 11:44 pm

Right. :lol: So you say. :lol: :roll:


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16 Apr 2006, 11:49 pm

I swear I did, honest, it was the best fairy bread ever!



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16 Apr 2006, 11:54 pm

I also had peeps!

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17 Apr 2006, 12:01 am

Then I had cupcakes with homemade peeps on top!

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Then I had heaps of banana candy!

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And then Candy arrived and did a special show for me! That was the best part!! !

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I think she was an aspie like me because look, she can't smile properly!



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17 Apr 2006, 7:58 am

Well that must have a great Easter then.


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17 Apr 2006, 8:27 am

i think far too many people put too much emphasis on being part of a couple. It's good to be single, you get to know yourself better.
I broke up with my last boyfriend in September last year and haven't felt the need to be part of a couple again realy.
Hope you are ok :)



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17 Apr 2006, 8:59 am

That eve angel picture is really rather frightening. 8O



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17 Apr 2006, 9:02 am

That's ok if you need to be alone for a while.

I hope things improve for you in the near future.


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17 Apr 2006, 9:43 am

Thanks you all. I'll try to live without seeking anyone but I still keep wondering if that girl will ever show her self. Well I'll try and I'll try to be happy about it.


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17 Apr 2006, 9:47 am

That's the attitude to have!


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17 Apr 2006, 10:04 am

TigerFire wrote:
I love you all as much as a friend could to other friends.


Even me? ;)

You need to sort out your self-esteem. No piece of skirt will want you if you're miserable all the time and look desperate. Work on that (and maybe lose some weight if you're overweight), get out a bit more and try not to worry so much (this bit is hard, I'll admit). Follow the advice of others to the letter and you'll begin to feel better. :)



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17 Apr 2006, 10:10 am

Well It's really hard to be happy since I've been depressed and I'm still depressed. No I'm not over weight I only weigh between 165-170. I haven't weighed my self yet not in a long while. Thanks everyone.


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