Okay, now I'm confused

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Yesterday I had a can of soda anonymously delivered to me in class (Valentine's Day fundraiser - a can of "Crush" for your "crush" - ho, ho, ho). It has a card attached saying "From: The 3 girl [sic] across the room." and then "Personal Message: We wanted to send you some friendly love!" First of all, I had no idea what the personal message. Second of all, there are so many girls across the room that I don't know who to ask for a meaning! (I suspect it could be the one directly across from me, to be quite literal, but I'm to unsure to want to ask - I had a bit of an interest in her a few months ago).

Now, to add to my confusion, the night previously I had finally decided I was going to talk to a girl who I liked and who has taken the effort to talk to me at various times, most recently a few weeks ago. I had walked through the most likely responses and figured what I would say depending on where the conversation ended up. Well, I had that can/note delivered right at the beginning of the day, and that screwed up my plans big time.

I had a bit of a sensory overload last night. Who do I talk to? What do I say to each? Am I obligated to choose a certain one? Or neither? I'm confused!

You're reading too much into it. Maybe one of them likes you as more than a friend. But the only thing you can really count on is that they wanted to make you feel good.

I hate to say this, I really do, but I remember school and the horrors that came with it. Be careful; they may be giving you this just to confuse you because it amuses them. They may be using you to fill their primitive desires to be wanted. Not all, but most (obligatory disclaimer) teenage girls are pure evil, particularly the pretty ones.