Ive known a handful of aspie guys: 5, in RL and online. Aspie guys are not my type. Only 1 of them, I would consider as a potential mate but thats cause he has his life together for the most part, motivated, driven, and in the end hes very mild on the spectrum. All the other aspie guys Ive known did not have their life together. From reading wp, I get the sense that many aspies guys dont have their lives in order. Sure many aspies find the dating world difficult in trying to attract people. If you dont have your life in order, its much harder to find a mate.