Could this cause me a problem?

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Will it be hard for me to find a girlfriend because at the moment i have got some mental health problems and i am hard to live with I suspect as well that i also have - Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)


just for reference i did date a girl in janurary but it only lasted for like a week and she actually said to my face "I only really dated you for practice."

that girl is harsh, unessicarily so.
I have no idea what that disorder is sorry..

The next time somebody makes a remark like that, you'll be prepared with a comeback such as "well, ya got a fat ass" or "you breath smells like you've been eating s**t sandwiches" or some kind of other insult that she might seem to ignore BUT believe me, she won't. It will eat at her and that's the desired effect. ALWAYS insult their physical appearance. You can even say, "Mooooo!" Can you tell me more about ODD?

here is more info of the disorder
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Opposition ... t_disorder

I don't see how saying anything back to someone like that is necessary. Doing such a thing just devalues you, not her.

Anyway, let's look at this rationally. Everyone we date is practice, really. Sometimes we get it right but most of the time, we're just improving ourselves and our understanding. So she said you were practice. That was tacky and unnecessary, but, let's face it, she was practice for you, too. You gained understanding from that experience. You don't want to date someone who can be that tacky because they say rude things. Next time will be better because you now have that experience.

You have to understand that is going to be harder because i find it harder to deal with stress and functioning. things like going clothes shopping with my girlfriend would be horrible

also as well i'd hate to date a girl my height or taller esspecially if she wears heels cause i am only 5ft10. it would SUCK.

NAH my worst nightmare is having a girlfriend who is taller than me in high heels

I should know the girl who broke up with me was 5ft11 and we went out for dinner on our first date and she was over 6' in high heels and it was just like mega awkward i nearly went into meltdown in fact.

whats worse is that i stupidly put on my dating profile that i was 6ft2 and she was suprised when she met the first time.

Thanks, guys!