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i got dumped by my last girlfriend in January and it was a very short relationship since it only lasted 1 week I met her online and we agreed to meet up but there was not a great spark between us and it was very awkard. We never really kissed or had sex either.

how can i make myself acceptable dating material for the future? I know aspergers and relationships don't really go hand in hand. I am a piss poor communicator and it does not come natuarlly to me.

Its just very depressing because after a hard day it would be so nice to come back to a girl who i can cuddle up too or be intimate with but all i have is myself and my annoying parents and 18 year old brother who treat my like i am 2 years old:( Even though my parents brought me an apartment i just don't feel independant enought to move out. I have also got a friendship group but there not helping me meet girls at all and don't really give a ratts ass about helping me out.

I just feel that relationships are important just as much as my special interests.


I really don't mean to offend anybody either but i know some of you guys don't see the point of relationships but i think they are a really important part of life becuase its always nice to have companionship and too much alone time is just depressing. Unfourntantly though i have a lot off odd mannerisims and don't really do things the neurotypical way so an opition is for me too hook up with an aspergers girl?

If you make a girl your special interest (and don't over do it) then you will probably give her enough attention to keep her interested. That's how I landed my wife, she was my complete obsession for awhile, until I started working after college and had to split my attention anyway.

I should be grateful as well that i have friends becuase they are good company and stop me from feeling lonely.

I LOVE alone time and do dive into my special interests but still though sometimes you have to balane it out and o other things in life so you can appreciate your time off more.