how soon to tell him about aspergers.....?

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21 Mar 2011, 3:12 pm

So I just met this guy and I really like him and we are pretty much dating just each other. But I really just met him.

When do you think is the best time to tell him I'm an aspie?

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21 Mar 2011, 3:18 pm

When he won't mind anyway, since autism is pretty poorly known in general.

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21 Mar 2011, 6:41 pm

Why are you even worrying about it? Its nothing to be ashamed of. And as Wallourdes says, chances are he won't have any idea what you're talking about, and if you're very high functioning, won't really believe you anyway. People think autism means retardation. They can't get their tiny minds past that.

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27 Mar 2011, 10:37 pm

Avengilante wrote:

I am not ashamed at all I actually like being an aspie. But other people dont think the same, so I just wasn't sure how long into a relationship to say something.

I actually have told him, and he really didn't care. lol

I just didn't wanna say it too soon, but I didn't want to take too long that it seems like i was hiding it.

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