Nice girls and "nice" girls.

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Just for a change, let's talk this time about nice girls and "nice girls".


Any experience with any of those kinds?


and do you think that nice girls finish last :-p?

Define the difference between nice and "nice", if you please.

"Nice" are bad who act like nice.

"Nice" must refer to the ones who like guys that are sociopaths.

Being a womanizer is a trait of ASPD after all.

Can't say I have met those "nice" girls.

You have but they acted nice to hide it.

Most of the female friends that I have had over the years were "nice" girls. They were all "friends" but would talk badly about each other when it was just me and one of them. It made me really uncomfortable.

Isn't that a frenemy thing girls have?

The "Dear Abby" question someone mentioned here talked about a "nice" girlfriend. I thought it was a euphemism for retar... I mean differently abled

I don't know about girls since I only date guys, but one I dated for a couple of months kept saying how nice he is. And he may have been on the surface, but deep down, he was kind of an a**.

All the females my own age I've known have been backstabbers, gossipers and two faced unfortunately.

I take it you mean "nice" with respect to male/female relationships and not "nice" with respect to female to female "frenemy" relationships.

I'm not sure there is an exact equivalent with a "nice" guy. I've heard of men feeling like they had been taken advantage of by women they perceived as nice because they were super nice to her and she seemed nice and friendly in return but in the end the relationship did not collimate in anything romantic and the men were upset about it, but this is really a "nice" guy scenario because they expected the woman to know his actual intentions, which she likely didn't, and became he became upset when he did not get what he wanted for his nicities in return.

I suppose that perhaps the closest thing to a "nice" girl would be a gold digger. There are women who, like "nice" guys, also can't define boundaries and allow themselves to get taken advantage of, for example, they do things they really don't feel comfortable doing and have trouble saying no, but it's usually not in the pursuit of a relationship but within the context of one.

Or perhaps the closest thing to a "nice" guy would be a woman who chases after a man and does multiple things to attempt to woo him, such as baking cookies and pretending to be in a relationship with him though he clearly isn't interested, or perhaps he is interested in sexual aspects and doesn't realize she either doesn't realize that or she is trying to use that as leverage to get into an actual relationship with him.

I think girls who generally are nice are in very high demand because lots of guys I've known want to find girls who are nice. I tend to like most any girl who is nice to me after a while but they never like me in that way

"nice" girls are usually sickly sweet girls who seem sweet to people but are actually being bitchy.

Dolores Umbridge in Harry potter, and Regina George in Mean girls.

Regina George is a more accurate example.

As for Dolores Umbridge, you can see the evil in her eyes.

Define 'nice girls' - normally such a term is used to describe women who behave themselves, do as they're told, girls who are not sexual or sexually promiscuous unless their partner tells them to be and even then that gives him right to call her a sl*t...it's like calling women 'ladies' or calling women who don't behave as like débutantes b*tches, sl*ts, wh*res, etc.

I prefer hale_bopp's definition.