Where do I look?

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The biggest frustration for me right now is where the hell do I look for the type of guy I want? I have no idea where to go in person and dating websites (including autisticdating.net) have their own pitfalls!

I realize this is probably highly inappropriate and may get me chastised, but, I miss sex. But, at my age I'm not going to do what I used to do in my younger years to find a male to have sex with. My ultimate is to find the man I am meant to be special to and be involved with in a marriage. And have lots of sex with.

But I'll be damned if I can figure out a good starting point to begin looking!! !

I feel like asking this question from the perspective of a 22-year old aswell haha.

The funny thing is, i'm the other way around. I'm in my 20s and I don't particularly care about sex... I've had people ask me online before (from folks who didn't know that I'm 23/m/nj) if I was a 40 year old woman, due to the lack of sexual desire...

Find a friend or two that will fix you up with some guys. Go out for coffee with them. They may not be prince charming, but coffee won't leave you broke or passed out on the ground. I think fixups are underrated. Everyone in our society is so stuck on being independent and self-reliant that they would rather let people stay lonely instead.

It is very difficult to tell you where to look for something if we do not know where it is. We cannot tell you what you want.