People who worry nothing happens for them in highschool?

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You know this is normal right? It might seem like everyone's dating everyone and having sex with everyone but they are not. You are just concentrating on the ones who are.

I never got kissed by a guy until my second year of university. Everyone is not out partying etc.. so don't be hard on yourself.

I agree. Most people I've known (who didn't have AS) did not have particularly eventful high school years.

I find this hard to believe actually. Alright then, approximately 60% of people in high school are out partying and having sex every Friday night. Not everyone, but most people. Although I will agree that there is nothing wrong with that. I accepted the fact that I'm not like most people almost a decade ago.

Don't worry about high school.

I didn't get a snog until university.

That's being generous. Thats BS you know.. people talk the talk but don't walk the walk.

lol I didn't start going out until my last year of highschool and still going out with the same guy too Out of my large highschool group of friends (15 or so girls), me and my friend are the only ones in long term relationships, she has been going out with the same guy since she was 15. We are lucky!

Nothing happened for me in high-school but I had NO desire at all for any of that stuff & looking back on things; I'm glad nothing happened because things would of probably went a lot worse for me. The people in relationships in high-school have lots of relationship problems; people partying end up getting arrested, hurt or worse

I'm glad nothing happened for me either, as the people I crushed on in highschool I now think are awful. Back then they thought they were too good for me.. now.. well I don't want them anyway.

I didn't crush on anyone in high-school I had so many problems with school & anxiety & other issues from being bullied in elementary that I had a very strong desire to get away from others & be alone. I probably would of had major melt-downs if I tried being social or anything

It may be 'all talk', but there is tons of evidence on Facebook that people my age going to parties and are having a life and whatnot.

What about the tons of people who aren't?

I think it's terrifying. People actually said to me they made love at 16. It's known that certain people did sex but nobody actually mentions it or talks about it. Nothing happened to me in high school actually. Really nothing. I was more focused on getting new friends and keeping the old ones unsuccessfully. I have to admit it was never my fault for not having many friends. I always call and call people, try to keep in touch with them and they don't return calls or don't speak to me in return. Some just hate me, some don't care and some do but they are really busy with their life and beside I am in the buttom of their friendlist. So anyhow, some girls did fancy me and sometimes it was too obvious but I was too damn stupid to notice. And when I did I had no idea how to respond so I just let it slide like an idiot. I wish I had a time machine of something.

But even if I was kissed or had a GF, having sex in your teens is no-no for me. Others, as you truthfully said brag about it and whatnot and some even knew I was innocent so they flattened me with stories of how they were abroad and were in a club and how all girls abroad are so easy. I hate those folks tales. And frankly I couldn't care less. So glad I am now over with school and don't have to worry about all those crooks.

The prospect of having sex when I was 16 never crossed my mind. If someone had suggested "making love" I'd have been terrified. There's an argument that even now, aged a-bit-more-than-16 I'm still terrified by the prospect

60% of the people in high school are out partying but 80% of the guys are lying about having sex. When I was in high school there was a lot of guys who said they were with so and so girl sexually but in reality the girl sometimes did not know the guy who was saying he got with her. If I ever heard a one of my bullies of mine say he screwed so and so I would tell her he is talking about her. If the girl cried I was like jackpot. I figured if I was going to get beat up why not give him a reason to hate me. Odds are the girl has a boyfriend who might beat up my bully for making stuff up about his girlfriend. Let that piece of human filth have to look over their shoulder when walking down the hallway for a change.

I have to ad do not be with someone you can't stand just so you can have sex either. It always ends ugly. I did this to get my friends to stop picking on me it turns out the guys who were teasing me were vigins too except they had less scrouples then me and lied about having sex.

They probably don't get attention because they are uninteresting. There was a news story here a while back that said people on Facebook are usually less outgoing than they appear & that using it can cause some people to get depressed because they believe that others have lots more going on than they do when in reality others are probably making stuff up to seem kewl


Lots brag about doing it in Jr.High nowadays

When it comes to the partying aspect of highschool, nothing happened to me. Some people like myself prefer to just have a quiet night in with a bit of socializing