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transformingcar
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06 Oct 2012, 10:17 am

well, she just broke up with me, so, I guess I'll never find love after all...
I can't keep liveing if I can't find someone to love. there's just no point anymore.
I might as well die.



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06 Oct 2012, 10:22 am

Why did she break up with you?


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06 Oct 2012, 10:30 am

Magnus_Rex wrote:
Why did she break up with you?


she said it's becase of going thourh a break up before and she thinks she needs to wait before she can be in a relastionship.

so, basicly, she lied.



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06 Oct 2012, 10:31 am

It sucks donkey balls, but it is life.

Not every relationship works out, but it is a lot harder to accept that when relationships are not a dime a dozen.



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06 Oct 2012, 10:42 am

transformingcar wrote:
she said it's becase of going thourh a break up before and she thinks she needs to wait before she can be in a relastionship.

so, basicly, she lied.

This does not make any sense. I have no idea of what to say. She is probably still hurt from her previous relationship.

This s**t is too complicated, so I will say it again: I wish I were an aromantic asexual.

Yeah, that is my motto now.


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06 Oct 2012, 2:25 pm

transformingcar wrote:
well, she just broke up with me, so, I guess I'll never find love after all...
I can't keep liveing if I can't find someone to love. there's just no point anymore.
I might as well die.


single life is better. Trust me, you're life has just improved.



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06 Oct 2012, 2:45 pm

It seems relationships just depress and upset people and then they find it weird I don't want one.


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06 Oct 2012, 3:23 pm

It hurts for a bit, but life goes on. There will be other women, but it takes time like anything.



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06 Oct 2012, 3:31 pm

You'll get over it :)


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06 Oct 2012, 3:45 pm

Go get drunk and go to a club with your friends.


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06 Oct 2012, 3:58 pm

transformingcar wrote:
Magnus_Rex wrote:
Why did she break up with you?


she said it's becase of going thourh a break up before and she thinks she needs to wait before she can be in a relastionship.

so, basicly, she lied.
ive never had a gf and im not talking about killing myself..suck it up


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06 Oct 2012, 3:59 pm

bizboy1 wrote:
Go get drunk and go to a club with your friends.
not everyone has friends..and not everyone drinks or likes clubbin


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06 Oct 2012, 4:47 pm

I really do not understand (NT) women, and I am a woman myself (but not NT) :)

I do not really have any advice, but I hope you will get better with time.


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06 Oct 2012, 5:34 pm

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Go get drunk and go to a club with your friends.


what friends? everyone I ever met betrayed me! I have no friends. and it's killing me inside.
the whole town hates me, not to mention "the Law" has banned me from clubs and bars.

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single life is better. Trust me, you're life has just improved.


No, single life is not better, it is much worse, to be alone, to be an outcast from society, Like I am. it is miserable being alone.
my life only gets worse as time goes on. I just want to die, but I don't have to will to kill myself, I'll have to find another way to die,
All I've ever wanted is to be loved, even my own family doesn't care about me. they never call me, or text me.
I find no reason to live without actually haveing a life, which I do not.
I need someone to love me.
but I have no place to go to meet women, no way to talk to one, and so many things get in the way.
So in short, without love... life has no purpose.



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06 Oct 2012, 5:37 pm

^^^ If you displayed any of that toxic negativity (which you've displayed before) it's little wonder the lady went running for the hills!

I've made the similar mistake of displaying even a small amount of negativity... nobody likes it, but on a 1st date it's a deal-breaker!



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06 Oct 2012, 5:56 pm

There is a popular saying about women that has been repeated plenty of times: B****es be crazy.

Secondly, comparable to what BlueMax said, the negativity is unbearable and I know I can be negative too. I don't want to hear about how you want to kill yourself. What I want is to hear you talk about the positive things that have happened in your life. I know it's hard when you feel so depressed, but think deep down and try and think of good things.



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