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How much would an aspie need to earn before his eligibility equals that on an average NT( USD or GBP)
40k 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
60k 13%  13%  [ 3 ]
100k 21%  21%  [ 5 ]
210k 4%  4%  [ 1 ]
400k 8%  8%  [ 2 ]
1m plus 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Its more complicated then that 54%  54%  [ 13 ]
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15 Jul 2011, 9:14 am

Some time ago, I write a questionare asking, is finding love as hard as earning x amound yearly.
I put finding live is as hard as earning 70k yearly. This questionare is similar but it refers to the average aspie male. And how much would he earn before his eligibility equals that of an NT( in other words dating becomes as easy as an average NT).



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15 Jul 2011, 9:16 am

Money =/= Love....



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15 Jul 2011, 9:24 am

emlion wrote:
Money =/= Love....


Being an NT =/== Love ?



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15 Jul 2011, 9:25 am

You shouldn't even have to go as high as £40,000 GBP or USD, or any amount. One's eligibility as a mate transcends whether or not they have Asperger's IMHO. Those Aspies I know who are eligible, and therefore have a tendency to have partners, are such because they have strong, masculine, alpha male personalities, not money.


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15 Jul 2011, 9:26 am

Aspie_Chav wrote:
emlion wrote:
Money =/= Love....


Being an NT =/== Love ?


I'm not sure what you're saying?

But the individual aspects of a person make love - not one set thing such as neuro-type or money or hair colour or whatever.



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15 Jul 2011, 9:37 am

emlion wrote:
Aspie_Chav wrote:
emlion wrote:
Money =/= Love....


Being an NT =/== Love ?


I'm not sure what you're saying?

But the individual aspects of a person make love - not one set thing such as neuro-type or money or hair colour or whatever.


There are <things> one or more that people have that makes them eligable. Without those thing, they will have a hard time.



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15 Jul 2011, 9:38 am

Aspie_Chav wrote:
emlion wrote:
Aspie_Chav wrote:
emlion wrote:
Money =/= Love....


Being an NT =/== Love ?


I'm not sure what you're saying?

But the individual aspects of a person make love - not one set thing such as neuro-type or money or hair colour or whatever.


There are <things> one or more that people have that makes them eligable. Without those thing, they will have a hard time.


Yes - but so what? Nothing worth doing is easy.
No-one is perfect, everyone has their hurdles.

edit: sorry, i'm just not sure of the point/idea of your question. :?



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15 Jul 2011, 9:40 am

I have a reasonably successful business (knock on wood) and make decent money, but it's completely irrelevent in terms of attracting someone worth attracting - I reject the basic premise of the question.



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15 Jul 2011, 9:44 am

Keeno wrote:
You shouldn't even have to go as high as £40,000 GBP or USD, or any amount. One's eligibility as a mate transcends whether or not they have Asperger's IMHO. Those Aspies I know who are eligible, and therefore have a tendency to have partners, are such because they have strong, masculine, alpha male personalities, not money.


I am using a average aspie as a comparison, not one with strong NT traits. Doesn't money make a different the same way it does to NT men. If a aspie owned a nice house( one good for bring up a family) isn't that different from one who rents a small flat.



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15 Jul 2011, 9:49 am

See, none of this computes, for me. I make my own money and I never feel right when someone else spends money on me, so as long as a man makes enough money to take care of himself, it's all good. No amount of money will elevate a man's "status" or "eligibility" in my eyes. I guess I'm not your target audience with this question?



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15 Jul 2011, 9:54 am

...and to answer the first part of your question, making money is MUCH easier than finding love, at least in my case.

I suppose it would be easier if I was a better person...



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15 Jul 2011, 9:58 am

I don't even understand this question.

What does money have to do with anything? Love has nothing to do with money whether the man or woman is NT or Aspie. Love is love. :scratch:



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15 Jul 2011, 9:59 am

I'm glad i'm not the only person who was confused by the whole concept of the question..



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15 Jul 2011, 10:16 am

i think he means that money is required to compensate for an aspie male's deficits. i can play this game.


just how beautful does as apsie female need to be, in order to make up for her aspie characteristics and make her equal to an NT?

__cute

__pretty

__head-turning

__smoking hot

__like a Playboy Playmate or famous model/actress

__the goddess Hera wants her dead



(obvious sarcasm is obvious, right? RIGHT?)


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15 Jul 2011, 10:24 am

Ah ok, so the idea is that an Aspie male has to be rich to be attractive to women?

Well that's just silly. There are lots of very attractive Aspie males round here. And money is irrelevant.

The most important thing is not money, but good musical taste and a beautiful soul. And must like cats.



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15 Jul 2011, 10:52 am

Henbane wrote:
Ah ok, so the idea is that an Aspie male has to be rich to be attractive to women?

Well that's just silly. There are lots of very attractive Aspie males round here. And money is irrelevant.

The most important thing is not money, but good musical taste and a beautiful soul. And must like cats.


I agree. I think this money thing is dying out now. But if for some reason you live in an old-fashioned area and you're male, just aim down-market. I know a lot of people who think £20 is serious money. Even I can afford £20. 8)