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mesona
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19 Sep 2011, 10:38 pm

After my last fail relationship I have decided to just want friends for now.

I met this girl on an anime forum and been talking to her for few months and after my last break up she tried to chear me up. After a bitvof chatting she started hitting on me and other offers, she kind but she is a little young for me how, I am not sure how to get her to understand I don't feel that way for her.


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19 Sep 2011, 10:49 pm

Be direct. Have a good reason but avoid unnecessary detail. Throw in some flattery then change the subject.



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20 Sep 2011, 1:32 am

yea be direct, it's the way to go. if you just got out of a relationship and need a break, mention it.



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20 Sep 2011, 1:16 pm

'Just looking for friends' can mean different things to different people. Some might take that literally and some might hear that to mean that you're looking to date without commitment. Then, there's also the whole 'friends with benefits' thing ... So, make sure you aren't too vague about what you're looking for.



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21 Sep 2011, 7:39 am

After long but gentle worded chat about what I need Vs what we are she says she has fallen inlove with me......


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24 Sep 2011, 1:57 pm

mesona wrote:
After long but gentle worded chat about what I need Vs what we are she says she has fallen inlove with me......


ahahaha nice! :evil:

So what's her deal any way? I'm guessing either jailbait or fattie...