Do women expect you to be friendly to all of those around?

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04 Oct 2011, 12:47 am

I was wondering if it comes off as strange or creepy if i only talk to a girl i like and not anyone else around. Like for instance in a class room, or at work setting. Does it look wierd for me to only talk to one person in the class?


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04 Oct 2011, 1:38 am

DEFINITLEY looks weird.

Play the cool guy. Talk to your friends, but pay plenty of attention to your girlfriend. Moderation dude.

If you're hanging out in a group, sit next to your girlfriend and talk to her, and if there's an awkward silence, join another conversation or talk to one of your buddies, and then she can talk to one of her girl friends. Then you can go back to talking to her afterwards.



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04 Oct 2011, 1:40 am

i dont have any friends at school


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04 Oct 2011, 5:20 am

I tend to try and ask a question about another random person she knows so to seem less creepy.



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04 Oct 2011, 6:39 am

liveandletdie wrote:
I was wondering if it comes off as strange or creepy if i only talk to a girl i like and not anyone else around. Like for instance in a class room, or at work setting. Does it look wierd for me to only talk to one person in the class?


That can often be seen as rudeness, too. Also it reminds me of a spider moving in for the kill.



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04 Oct 2011, 6:52 am

interesting...well i don’t really talk to anyone as it is...

but i sat next to this girl who is in my class and introduced myself, partly because I’d like to get to know her but also because i saw her at a museum randomly so i felt obligated.

though i haven't introduced myself to anyone else in the class room.

was wondering because i am not sure if i should sit next to her again and talk because if i do i likely wont talk to anyone else around, which might come off as weird/creepy.


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04 Oct 2011, 7:00 am

You seem to be doing ok at the moment, but I wouldn't just pursue her and no-one else, you may miss out on meeting some really cool people.

And if you do it too much, yes it will be seen as strange.