This is a question i posed on yahoo answers that i'd like to pose here, with the details as well...
Young guy with Aspergers feeling stuck, any help?
I've been in a bit of an "offseason," and was messing around with a woman i knew back in high school who had gotten out of a bad relationship. After a while, she told me that she was trying to better her life, work her butt off and do what she needed to do (respectable, no problem with that), and that she wasn't ready for a relationship. I'm 19, in college, and i've only been in 1 2-year relationship. I feel as if i'm stuck in between things.
I'm still a virgin (getting picked on about that and irritated by people who bring up sexual experiences) and I have a really bad tendency to overlook whether or not women find me attractive. I have the confidence to walk around and "strut" but I have no clue how to "get to the next phase."
I want to feel comfortable when I find the next one (dating sites aren't a good idea, and going to parties is difficult when being the only straight-edge person in the room).
I don't know why I feel like i'm in between a rock and a hard place...
30 Apr 2012, 1:16 am
