Me and redmage have...

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Broken up in case anyone is interested in a relationship with her...

I decided to break up with her thats why we broke up.

I'm not interested in a relationship.

Last edited by RTSgamerFTW on 23 Nov 2006, 11:29 pm, edited 1 time in total.

"anyone still wants her she's availaible... "

she isn't an object...

and she's like 15..and i presume u r similar?..u both have a long way to go....ur talking in absolutes as tho this is the end!..... with nanotechnology you'll both prolly live another 500 years...

so relax

I didn't call her an object ok??

I don't care about getting a relationship anymore....

I'm 36 years old and willing to adopt her.

what im saying is 'in case anyone still wants her she's availaible... '

sounds a little harsh..and prolly hurt her feelings....after she prolly hurt yours....i don't wanna be too critical tho cos i prolly said worse at the same age....just trying to offer u some perspective cos ya seem angsty... which is hard without sounding like some condescending git...

anyways take it easy

she isn't a piece of fruit or meat to be auctioned off.

I'm sorry for your pain, but your wording...not so great.

I do not think he ment to imply she was an object he was just saying "this girl is nice but I'm not compatable with her or anybody and any males here should take a look
at her.

My guess is like me he realised just how different the typical aspie mans social skills
are compared to a typical female aspie. The difference is very great. Thus most
aspie female are better matched with NT males. And most Aspie males tend spend alot time alone. I'm like him in saying I do not want a realtionship but at 36 I pretty
much really mean it .

I think we should let TM1 adopt RedMage. It's not like he's going to molest her or anything.

Actually, they would have lots of fun shopping for shoes and clothes, and TM1 could show her the proper way to *ahem* polish a pepperoni.

respectfully disagree TM1.

(generalising) i think the more male brain of women aspies corresponds to the more female brain of men aspies quite well (in general) the confusion lies in aspies trying to emulate NT's and wanting each other to act NT i think..(i am guilty of this big time)

i have an aspie gf....and altho we do tend to disagree quite often...we have lasted 10 years together....so it isn't impossible... (we have broken up 2x....not saying its all beers n skittles at all...just possible)

>>I'm like him in saying I do not want a realtionship but at 36 I pretty
much really mean it .

if i were single again i would possibly stay that way a while too....simply cos its hard enuff taking care of my own state of being! (in the current world)

Last edited by Deutha on 23 Nov 2006, 11:24 pm, edited 2 times in total.

at fifteen ya'lls are a bit too young to be worried about relationships and all that jazz. I didn't start dating til Sophmore year, and I was more forced into that situation, since this girl who was a Senior, who I was good friends with, yes, I'm an Aspie, and no she's not an NT, she's got turretes, and a bad case at that. anyhow, I sorta asked her as a joke, figuring if she said no, I could ask someone else and my conscious would be clear. she said yes, and I tried to get out of it, my math teacher threatened to fail me if I didn't take her to formal. so I went. williningly. kinda surprsing, we still talk to this day and we both like each other, however the farthest its only gone is cuddling, she's not my type...too emotionally problematic. however, I did date this great girl for about six months, she was former ADD, however I never told her I was ASpie, I would of told her if it had lasted over six months. however she broke up with me via instant messenger, and I was single from then, til this past October.

from then to October, I was fine being Single, one of the most natualist things in the world, of course sometimes I wished I had a special girl in my life, like I do now, even though she and I only dated for a month, we're still close.

as I was saying, being single is a good thing, not a bad thing.

FOR THE LAST TIME I DIDN'T CALL HER A THING!! !! !

I'll edit the post,geez...

Oh crap i forgot this is my 666th post!! ! 666 FOREVER!! ! 666 PWNS 1337 IN EVERY SINGLE WAY!! !

Last edited by RTSgamerFTW on 23 Nov 2006, 11:48 pm, edited 1 time in total.

i know it feels like we're telling u off....but we're just trying to say respect others n stuff...

ok how bout this....say u and another person were friends....

then u disagreed.. the friend gets pissy.....writes on a forum

'no longer friends with unknown...if anyone still wants to be friends with him...he's available'

it's like the friend is saying something distasteful about u in general just becos he no longer likes u etc..
even tho he may not have had that thought in his head when he wrote it (happens to me all the time....i write something then read it later and think s**t....thats offensive in a way i never meant)

please dont get upset tho....it's no biggie....in 50 years...u'll laff about it

better still watch out on the forums for me doing it....then say the same thing back to me.....twill make u chortle on the inside

Last edited by Deutha on 23 Nov 2006, 11:55 pm, edited 4 times in total.

I lost my girlfriend in a poker game

Last edited by BazzaMcKenzie on 24 Nov 2006, 12:03 am, edited 1 time in total.

unknown: changing that makes u 2x the guy i was at ur age...kudos m8 *me bows*

I am not trying to be a dick, or to insult you. I just wanted to let you know that the verbage you chose was insulting. you might not have labled her a "thing"...but your words seemed to treat her as such. she was never your possession...and she isn't yours to give away or offer up to others.

yeah.

however for being 15, the kid has guts.