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28 Nov 2012, 4:33 pm

Those some of the questions I was asked in the date today:

-What do you work?
-Where is your workplace?
-Are you dating someone?
-What's your religion?
-You're 30, why you are not married or engaged yet?
-Are you thinking of marriage?
-Ever been in a serious relationship before?
-Ever been in love before?
-What are you seeking in a girl?
-How would you treat your girl?

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28 Nov 2012, 4:39 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Sounds more like a job interview!

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28 Nov 2012, 4:42 pm

nessa238 wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Sounds more like a job interview!

To be honest, is that not exactly what dating is?

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28 Nov 2012, 4:44 pm

Adam82 wrote:

nessa238 wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Sounds more like a job interview!

To be honest, is that not exactly what dating is?

A bit yes, it is a sussing the other person out as a prospective partner type thing.

I ask a lot of questions myself when I meet someone but not in a check-list way, just because
I like to form a picture of the person's life and past relationship history, out of curiosity as much as anything else.

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28 Nov 2012, 4:45 pm

[Google Translation:] How much money do you make and, if it's significant, will you marry me immediately?

That's sure how it feels from those questions, anyway...

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28 Nov 2012, 4:57 pm

''what do you work''
if she worded it that way you should have said
''the stripper pole
lol

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28 Nov 2012, 4:58 pm

What questions did you ask her and did you like her?

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28 Nov 2012, 5:04 pm

I think those pretty fair questions.

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28 Nov 2012, 5:08 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

My conversations with women and people in general usually end after question 1.

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28 Nov 2012, 5:10 pm

Question overload, for me

Were all those, fired at the same time?

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28 Nov 2012, 5:20 pm

The question I hate the most is "So what do you do for fun?"

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28 Nov 2012, 5:32 pm

aspiesandra27 wrote:

Question overload, for me

Were all those, fired at the same time?

One after one.

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28 Nov 2012, 6:14 pm

what a grilling! The questions i would have been comfortable being asked would be "shall we order another pot of tea?"

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28 Nov 2012, 6:22 pm

A lot of people are very fast on a first date. They don't want to lose time. If you feel overwhelmed they just don't care.

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28 Nov 2012, 6:25 pm

If dates are like job interviews will they eventually have background checks?

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqaAg--lz0U[/youtube]

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28 Nov 2012, 8:07 pm

Yes, dating is a little like a job interview but it shouldn't feel like one. That's what dating is about...getting to really know one another but just to ask them like that, one right after the other, I probably would have been less than polite and ended the date. I am so sorry you had to go through that....

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