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27 Dec 2012, 4:48 pm

I am fairly sure I have Asperger's. (unofficially diagnosed, but I display most of the symptoms.)
I am attracted to a boy who also displays a lot of Aspie characteristics. However; I am not sure about it.

I was wondering if the relationship would go anywhere.
What do you guys think?

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27 Dec 2012, 5:02 pm

Only one way to find out.
It aint asking us here.

If he gives you a call...go out with him and find out.

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27 Dec 2012, 5:09 pm

There's been a lot of successful relationships and marriages between two AS people, a few even on this site I believe.

If you two have the chemistry, by all means go for it

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27 Dec 2012, 5:26 pm

Haha thanks (:

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27 Dec 2012, 5:33 pm

Welcome to Wrong Planet, by the way

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27 Dec 2012, 11:29 pm

@Joan: How old is the boy, if you don't mind my asking?

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28 Dec 2012, 12:43 am

JoanWatson709 wrote:

Be forward as well, back when I was clueless I never picked up on hints and tips well unless the girl was very forward. I have found that women who are forward and direct tend to be the best as they clearly state their intentions.

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28 Dec 2012, 3:31 pm

mfs1013 wrote:

@Joan: How old is the boy, if you don't mind my asking?

He's 17. I'm 16. We go to church together.

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28 Dec 2012, 3:32 pm

Wolfheart wrote:

JoanWatson709 wrote:

Okay. Thank you!

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28 Dec 2012, 5:13 pm

How can anyone give useful advice when we know nothing beyond "both parties (most likely) have AS"?

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28 Dec 2012, 6:39 pm

Who_Am_I wrote:

How can anyone give useful advice when we know nothing beyond "both parties (most likely) have AS"?

this

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