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24 Apr 2013, 2:28 am

I couldn't find it and oh my I have a crush on somebody here. I doubt I have his user name right. Ferrilucci. The guy from NOLA. So there you go.

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24 Apr 2013, 5:46 am

Only crush I've ever seriously had was a girl I met when I moved to Nevada and went to middleschool and highschool with. I only knew her because I was introduced to her via this guy I knew who became my 1 friend for a long time until recently. Her name is Caitlyn, she's 5 foot nothing, brown eyes, tan skin, great smile, and someone who didn't think I was a pathetic nerd.

Went through school oblivious as I do, I would do nice things for her because I enjoyed talking to her, being around her, she was overall pleasant, which was very difficult for me being afraid of women, having social anxiety, and sucking at everything social in general. Got into highschool, she became a cheerleader and still stuck around with me which I found amazing as everyone else I knew ditched me for football or other friends. Met other girls through her that she would introduce me to, equally as nice and they would always tease me saying that she liked me.

But I've been messed with by women ALOT, I figured they just wanted to see if they could get me to make a move or do something embarrassing so I never did anything. Highschool was way too much for me after awhile with all the people, another school got merged with ours and I couldn't breathe walking through the hallways, I was literally chest to chest with other students trying to get from one class to another it was brutal on me. I almost passed out a few times (anxiety). Long story short, I dropped out of highschool, got all this training and my G.E.D. to make up for it, she becomes friends with my sister, comes over and throws herself at me *sits on my lap in nothing but lingere stroking my head and trying to eat my ear or something >.>* and I'm sitting in my chair playing Xbox (1st one) trying not to freak out so I just continue playing games and she gets upset. Next thing you know she's married to a guy who has my same name whom she met in the military and haven't heard from her since.

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24 Apr 2013, 10:20 am

Olive: You were close... I know I am pontificating, but it is latin for Savage Light... And I will admit it openly... I've kinda been grooving on you, too...

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24 Apr 2013, 10:29 am

Tsproggy wrote:

Immensely unfortunate, that's all I can say.

At least you got a bit of game, even when you think you don't, otherwise she wouldn't sit on your lap stroking the freaking hell out of you.

Funny how nerves can turn your life completely against you.

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24 Apr 2013, 11:32 am

I would give anything to not have crushes on anyone anymore, at this point.

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24 Apr 2013, 11:42 am

I've only had 3. I'm kinda glad its only been three since I can't imagine dealing with that all happening over and over

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24 Apr 2013, 11:48 am

Yeah, if you're unlucky in love, having crushes over and over again is no fun.

I wish I was more picky.

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24 Apr 2013, 12:36 pm

DialAForAwesome wrote:

Yeah, if you're unlucky in love, having crushes over and over again is no fun.

I wish I was more picky.

You said it.
I wish it would end, the moment someone loves me.
Because being alone and single ain't fun at all.

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24 Apr 2013, 4:52 pm

OliveOilMom wrote:

I couldn't find it and oh my I have a crush on somebody here. I doubt I have his user name right. Ferrilucci. The guy from NOLA. So there you go.

Its in the "Members Only" forum. If you mean "Who is your WP Crush?". Still there.

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24 Apr 2013, 4:57 pm

Careful with your wp crushes olive.

I ended up spending way too much time here because of one(openly stated on a thread a long way back).

Then again I met quite a lot of great people at the same time so its not too bad

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25 Apr 2013, 6:01 am

OliveOilMom wrote:

I couldn't find it and oh my I have a crush on somebody here. I doubt I have his user name right. Ferrilucci. The guy from NOLA. So there you go.

Good for you. He does have an excellent sense of humour, one or two times I have ruined my keyboard by spitting tea out onto it from laughing at his comments.

The only decent possibilities here that I would enjoy going on a date with would never date me because they know too many of my deepest, darkest secrets. :lol:

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25 Apr 2013, 6:25 am

Aspies breeding is not always a good thing

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25 Apr 2013, 9:37 am

boywonder: I would advise against statements like that... it smacks of eugenics

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25 Apr 2013, 9:47 am

boywonder wrote:

Aspies breeding is not always a good thing

Not really a wise comment to place on autism forums, but I'm sure you mean it in a different way, I hope.

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25 Apr 2013, 11:44 am

boywonder wrote:

Aspies breeding is not always a good thing

Two NT people can have an Aspie baby. :shrug:

I have never thought twice about whether or not I'd procreate with someone with AS. I'd do it in a heartbeat.

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25 Apr 2013, 11:47 am

boywonder wrote:

Aspies breeding is not always a good thing

Feralucce wrote:

boywonder: I would advise against statements like that... it smacks of eugenics

I agree that nobody should have the right to forbid other people to reproduce.
But if it's ethical to do so if the child is likely to have AS is, I think, a legitimate question.
My personal answer is "no", which is one of the reasons why I don't want to have children. But I'm OK with other people having different opinions.

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