Wanna know a stupid secret???!?!?!?!??! !

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I wish I had a girlfriend! That's right! Maybe I'm attention seeking, but I was a guy for years that was like "ya know what??? I'm totally happy being alone!! !!" But guess what? I didn't realise it right away, but that was denial! Yup, denial! So yeah!! ! I'm drinking tonight, but again, it's no excuse.

I'm not sure that can be termed a secret when it's true of millions of people. And hey, drinking & modern dating practices are basically right next to each other in terms of risk. Nobody can afford to overdo either, we might as well keep both in moderation and focus on not burning bridges.

In response to the thread, I was going to say no, but then you blurted it out anyway.

You could have done a poll and waited for the results to come rolling in. Very inconsiderate.

Now what are you drinking, after that first post of yours I could do with some myself. Pass it this way.

wanna know a bigger secret?

Most guys who have never had a gf feel the same way.


If you want a girlfriend, you must somehow standout from other guys. What makes you different from most guys? A way of being different than most guys is being nice and friendly to everyone. Most people appreciate it if you're a friendly person and they're more likely to be friendly to you back. This means you getting out of your comfort zone and actually talking to people.


If girls see you're a warm friendly person then they will be the same to you.

all of this is easier said than done so if you want a gf, you must be willing to put in the effort. Don't expect some girl to approach you out of the blue.

Pretty much this ^

I got a secret too.

But I want people to beg before I give my glaringly obvious one away

Beg? Moi? Beg? I only beg for kebabs. Do you have a kebab? No, didn't think so.

kebabs are devil food. really unhealthy. probably makes you ill in ways you don't realise.

Yes mum.

Don't do it! Don't be like all the other people who have relationships. It's a trap!

Now I want a kebab. And I don't care how bad they are for you!

that secret is not stupid

wanna know a bigger secret? everyone has insecurities about themselves. you woudn't know that due to your delayed theory of mind

Smoke weed to get over your troubles. Drinking makes them worse.

I am in the same predicament too. I want a girlfriend, but not all the baggage that comes with it. But I'm not a "player," so one-night stands are not my thing. But then being single like I am now mostly leaves me bitter. I don't understand life sometimes.

I never understood how the numbers work out on that one. If some male doesn't stand out and therefore doesn't get a girlfriend that also a leaves a female without a boyfriend. After all the guys who stood out were taken, wouldn't she then go for one of those that didn't? Or would she rather remain single forever?

This assumes the numbers of males and females in the world are exactly equal and no female has multiple boyfriends, but I think that's close enough to the truth. (In fact, there are slightly more males than females in the world, but not enough to invalidate this argument.)