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15 Oct 2013, 11:32 pm

A girl wants a man who thinks of her as special, but not too special? For example if I thought 3 of my female friends were special, would it be more attractive than having one special person who I'm constantly thinking about?



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15 Oct 2013, 11:35 pm

I would want my male partner to think of me as more special than any of his female friends. But I wouldn't want him to constantly think about me.



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16 Oct 2013, 12:09 am

You're overthinking this. Obviously, a girl wants to be considered special by the boy she's dating. If she is NOT dating a particular boy, then being considered special by him may not necessarily be a compliment, especially if she's not attracted to him. Remember: friendship and attraction are two COMPLETELY different things. A friendship does not 'level up' with a girl to romance, it changes, often for reasons unrelated to the friendship.


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16 Oct 2013, 2:36 am

Also remember if she is the most special person put a helmet on her to keep her safe. :)


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