I am starting to get tired of casual encounters!

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I truly am although they are fun they do not provide me emotional, intimate fulfillment, as fun as they are at the end I am alone and unloved! I also realize I am not getting any younger and the fact my parents will no longer be around and leaving me completely alone it is time I get serious and eventually find someone I truly love and settle down and make a family of my own and I will be satisfied 100% and have a family again and be a good father and such! I want to be a daddy, I want to fall in love I want to be completely fulfilled and take all the responsibilities a loving husband must take!

And I should care because...?

You will fail.

Why have you been spending time on these casual encounters if they're not fulfilling? Finding someone for long-term is a different task than finding someone for casual... or so I assume.

You assume correctly ^^^

I think it's pretty common to want more out of a relationship after "sowing wild oats". Just don't latch on to the nearest person because of a fear of abandonment. Figure out what you want in a partner emotionally, as well as physically.

I didn't see his post titled "Dear Boo".

Yes, there is, Bopp and Geeko can attest to that.

Something is wrong with your computer, update your java or something.

Is anyone ever 100% satisfied with anything? That's a lot of pressure to put on the potential family. If I were you I'd take anything over 50%.
I never had much of a family. It was me and my Mom (until my stepfather came along.) I imagine it must be nice, but I think it can be hard to come by. Anyway, maybe you have a young lady in mind?

I somehow doubt that the plural form of "encounter" is entirely honest.

Why are we getting pulled into this lover's quarrel?

Clearly the OP is looking for something more serious, Boo. Responding with indignation shows you're not emotionally equiped for anything more than casual flings.

And AO, you need to accept that Boo's a free spirit. He's the type of Stallion that's good for a ride or two but refuses to be tamed.

Otaku, I think that's awesome. I would love to support you in this. I think you will be an awesome dad. And husband. What are your plans for financially supporting your family, if you would care to share?

Otaku, ignore the haters. As a 37 year old man, I want a family too. It's taken me 37 years to find a special woman, one who seems to love me although it's only been about 6 months. I was just diagnosed with Autism today and timidly broke the news to her. She hugged me and said, "I've pretty much known all along." So, naturally I was puzzled and she picked up on it. She said, "I'm with you and I love you because, unlike other men I've dated in the past, you are kind, generous, and unfailingly loyal." The right one will love you for you.