The one that got away :(

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I went out to a night club with a few friends a few weeks ago.We where having a great time I then saw this guy and straight away I liked him(that never happens to me) anyway he liked me too.I didn't want to appear desperate so when he asked if I liked him I said MAYBE! Which he didn't like so I then told him the truth.

Nightclubs make me stressed out sometimes especially if a guy wants kiss you there and the. guy that Iiked did and I was so nervous because I really liked him. I was worried about what way do I dance wit him too but I try and not let that show

I didn't ask for the guy's number which is so frustrating because I can't stop thinking about him.There hasn't been a day where he has not been on my mind.I just thought he would ask for my number because I didn't want to appear desperate and have a fear of rejection so was worried in case he said no.I tried finding him on Facebook but I couldn't anyway even if i did find him on Facebook it's not like I could send him a friend request that would be a bit weird

The only chance I might see him again if he goes to club again but I think it's unlikely that would happen.

Any advice?

Return to the night club on the same night of the week as when you first met him. When I was in college, I noticed that club goers have their own favorite "nights" to visit. For them it is a ritualized routine; possibly because their club friends choose the same night, or because of their work/study/family schedules.

I don't think sending him a "friend request" would actually be that odd in today's internet climate.

Just write that you enjoyed your evening with him, and would like to keep in touch, get to know him better.

I don't see anything "creepy" in that.

If you don't feel like doing that, I would second AspieUtah's advice.

He should have asked for your number, he already made the first move, and you kind of said yes. I don't think he was seriously interested.

Forget him

If you ever see him again, reject him

without quoting you
you have made your self an easy target for him

he will take advantage of you

Well he was very affectionate towards me which made me feel a bit uncomfortable (holding me) but again I try to not let that show,he also said that I was lovely and that my name was lovely too

I have a feeling he expected me to ask for his number