How do I handle going back to school with girls?

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22 Sep 2015, 3:19 pm

I'm 16, and I go to an alternative high school with 4 other boys. I'm a boy, too. I might be going back to my old high school next semester, but I had a habit of flirting with the girls too much back in the 9th grade, and I'm worried that when I go back I'll be overwhelmed...Also, I don't know HOW to talk to girls anymore...



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23 Sep 2015, 8:40 am

Can you talk to boys? Talk to girls the same way. Boom, problem solved.


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23 Sep 2015, 8:53 am

Well if they're being rude to you, then accuse them of playing "kick the autistic", because that's America's favorite game nowadays.



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23 Sep 2015, 9:05 am

Ganondox wrote:
Can you talk to boys? Talk to girls the same way. Boom, problem solved.


Nope. Doesn't work that way. Well, it does if you want friends, but not if you are romantically interested.



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25 Sep 2015, 3:17 am

rdos wrote:
Ganondox wrote:
Can you talk to boys? Talk to girls the same way. Boom, problem solved.


Nope. Doesn't work that way. Well, it does if you want friends, but not if you are romantically interested.


First, he isn't supposed to be entering a romantic relationship. Second, yes it does, unless you talk to boys like an a**hole, than I suggest not talking like an a**hole. If you can't be friendly with a girl than how to expect to be romantic with one?


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25 Sep 2015, 5:29 am

I was extremely awkward as a teenage boy when I had to talk to girls, too. I knew treating them like boys wasn't quite right, but had no idea what exactly to do differently.

I didn't really know how to treat other boys, either, but wasn't aware of it yet.


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25 Sep 2015, 5:44 am

Ganondox wrote:
Can you talk to boys? Talk to girls the same way. Boom, problem solved.


Like for example "Wow man! That was f*****g AWESOME! That's some serious s**t!" ?

You mean like that? because this how boys often talk with each other.
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27 Oct 2015, 7:14 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ganondox wrote:
Can you talk to boys? Talk to girls the same way. Boom, problem solved.


Like for example "Wow man! That was f*****g AWESOME! That's some serious s**t!" ?

You mean like that? because this how boys often talk with each other.
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Well I talk to more girls than boys, so uh...


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27 Oct 2015, 9:39 am

So flirt with girls at your school.