do you guys think she doesn't like

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Justinguck
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16 Apr 2016, 7:52 pm

I was walking with my friend to class & I saw the girl I like there & I was looking her but then I just looked away. But then later we pass by again at the hallway & i turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. Then later when she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me looking so I just looked away. Then when she went over to talk to her friend I was looking at her but then I stopped. But later when i turn around I saw her at the back of the class & she was looking at me but then later she left class early?



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16 Apr 2016, 8:00 pm

Go up and talk to her, then you'll find out. Here's a script:

"I just wanted to say you look really cute today."
She blushes, or looks away, or some other coy behavior.
You: "That just makes you even more cute." pause "So what did you think about ____(insert class subject here)."

Three sentences and two pauses. At that point you're in the conversation, you made your intentions known, and you introduced a topic you both have in common without coming off creepy, out of place, or like you're not sure what's going on. After that just let the conversation flow naturally, you'll know by the end of it if she's into you or not.



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16 Apr 2016, 8:37 pm

But idk when we pass by again at the hallway I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend though. Then i guess when she went over to talk to her friend I was looking at her so maybe that's why she moved to the back of the class & was looking at me though. But idk why she left class early. Do you know why she did this?



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16 Apr 2016, 9:01 pm

It doesn't matter why she did it, none of us can tell you, only she can...which is why you need to do the actual important thing: talk to her.



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16 Apr 2016, 10:44 pm

Aristophanes wrote:
Go up and talk to her, then you'll find out. Here's a script:

"I just wanted to say you look really cute today."
She blushes, or looks away, or some other coy behavior.
You: "That just makes you even more cute." pause "So what did you think about ____(insert class subject here)."

Three sentences and two pauses. At that point you're in the conversation, you made your intentions known, and you introduced a topic you both have in common without coming off creepy, out of place, or like you're not sure what's going on. After that just let the conversation flow naturally, you'll know by the end of it if she's into you or not.


Oh my, how perfect, we need more of these scripts. Please do more, do more ! :)

if you do ... add alternative responses she may give, it's hard to catch these things, you know.


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16 Apr 2016, 11:14 pm

Jermaine wrote:
Oh my, how perfect, we need more of these scripts. Please do more, do more ! :)

if you do ... add alternative responses she may give, it's hard to catch these things, you know.


Lol, I'm not Cassanova, that's about all I've got: one genuine compliment, a follow up compliment, and a transition to something in common. Back when I used to flirt with women and try to fit "the norm" I found that method to be the most effective. Like I said it gets your intentions out there while immediately moving into familiar territory for both people. As for actual scripts, write your own-- if you're using other people's scripts you're not being totally genuine. Just follow the pattern I mentioned and fill in a few alternate responses on her part and your reply to those responses. It's just thinking of all the options before the conversation actually happens-- not only does it give you something good to open with, it also alleviates the pressure because you're prepared.