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Why when a guy says that, they interpret it quickly as the following:

"I love you" = "I want to marry you, live with you forever and make babies with you"


That's not necessarily true!!

I love you too.

Did you say that to your partner?

what else could it mean?

i tell it to her every night, and i cannot know how she'd interpret it. she's plasticine, $300. some are ovenbake.

that's what i want in life. but i'd use different words.

maybe it means she'll stay for you.

are you in fact interested in settling down in that way?

This is no different to horny men thinking a woman they've been dating for two weeks wants sex just as badly as he does.

It seems there's a dichotomy mindset about men: if he's not anticipiating marriage with the given partner = he's just after sex!

Why is that? This is so untrue.

i believed in every word of it until July 2015,and since then,i became hateful of romance,sex & anything else about relationships because of my aspergers involving how severely awkward that i appear to women & girls of my own age ,making plans to stim on a giant-stuffed bear & blaming them for it

Personally because I don't want the happy thing to end.

There was a female user asking a similar question a while back. Her boyfriend got upset because she said she didn't know truthfully if she could love him for the rest of her life. He felt hurt by that.

People like the feeling they have and they really hope it will last.

Security is a nice feeling too.

Do they? Is that what all women think? Who says that is what we believe? Who here has stipulated that that is what they believe? Only you....so why say something that only you believe, then tell us that it's not necessarily true when we all know it isn't true at all as it is something only you think? Is there a point to these threads? I just don't get it.

"Love" is a very strong word. I don't think we can truly understand its meaning until a relationship has been tested.

I love securing people. Thankfully I can give some friends a few interesting self-defense techniques.

Security is an illusion.

People enjoy the security of illusions.

Or illusions of security; LOL.

And I'm blessed to say nobody's secured me unless they plan on being nice to me forever, no drawing back on that one.

i never felt love as i would define it.

the best i can do is tell someone i find them acceptable for a certain amount of time each week.
with my cat, that translates to "every minute of the week", but to others, well they are lucky if i accept them for company.

Love you too.