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hale_bopp
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04 Jan 2018, 10:10 pm

For relationships and in general. What are they?

Mine:

Work on my anger.
Increase exercise, which will help with the above.
Learn to meditate.
Put more effort into existing and new friendships.
Start a small business to work on in conjunction with my job.
Learn to be more accepting of myself and others.
Pick up one type of volunteer work to give back to the community.



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04 Jan 2018, 11:18 pm

Mine are die, die die. With a little bit of die on the side.

Only improvement I can do is try to get back to going to the gym.
It won’t help though which makes it hard to do as it’s gosh awful.i hate going to the gym or working out in general, I’d rather sleep in or play games.

I’m buying silver, if it every jumps like gold I’d have lots of money one day lol.
It won’t . :(

I tried finding a group but couldn’t.
I can’t afford plastic surgery.
I’m stuck at the job I have since I’m not able to do full time work.

I envy you . I wish I was more normal like you and other aspies who are successful.



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04 Jan 2018, 11:22 pm

Mine:

Work on my emotions.
Increase exercise, which will help with the above.
Read more.
Do well in college.
Learn to be more accepting of myself and others.
Learn to not worry if I am put on the spot or am ignored.
Overcome paranoia and learn to cope with it.



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04 Jan 2018, 11:26 pm

ZachGoodwin wrote:
Mine:

Work on my emotions.
Increase exercise, which will help with the above.
Read more.
Do well in college.
Learn to be more accepting of myself and others.
Learn to not worry if I am put on the spot or am ignored.

Good luck in college. I liked college i did well in it. Wish I could been permanent student.



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04 Jan 2018, 11:32 pm

ZachGoodwin wrote:
Mine:

Work on my emotions.
Increase exercise, which will help with the above.
Read more.
Do well in college.
Learn to be more accepting of myself and others.
Learn to not worry if I am put on the spot or am ignored.
Overcome paranoia and learn to cope with it.


Nice goals, good luck in achieving them!!

@sly, I’m not normal, I’ve been through suicide struggles hundreds of times. I’m simply a fighter, and try to be realistic, have a problem? Find a solution.

Do you think you’re perfect already in all ways except for fitness?



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05 Jan 2018, 12:26 pm

Yess awesome thread, I diig it c:

Mine are:
Get into better shape
Improve my social skills and mental resilience
Teach myself how to cook a more diverse variety of foods
Start practicing a new martial art
Study a new language
Learn to generate passive income and save money to travel
Relearn how to inspire myself musically and artistically
And the one that brings me stress -- finish my first school semester in almost a decade x.x

Also hale and Zach I like both of your lists and resonate with all of your goals!

And sly remember that normal is in the eye of the beholder. Keep your head up and try to maintain positivity. I don't know you but Im sure there is something beautifully unique about you.



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05 Jan 2018, 12:30 pm

My only goal is to howl like a wolf on the subways a little less voluminously.......



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05 Jan 2018, 12:35 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
My only goal is to howl like a wolf on the subways a little less voluminously.......

No no no, more higher volume howling please :>



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05 Jan 2018, 12:52 pm

If I get a nice treat (like a piece of filet mignon), I'll howl with delight.



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05 Jan 2018, 1:09 pm

Wellllllll, filet mignon does happen to fall under the category of stuff that I can cook very well soooo we could be on our way to a deal here



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05 Jan 2018, 1:20 pm

I'll also take chicken teriyaki....with noodles.



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05 Jan 2018, 1:54 pm

To get a job, preferably a full time one.
Get in to a bit better shape.
Put more effort in to my language studies.
Try to make my attitude more positive (hard, very hard.)
Become more patient.
Learn to deal better with routines breaking.



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05 Jan 2018, 5:07 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I'll also take chicken teriyaki....with noodles.

Can you use chopsticks with paws?



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05 Jan 2018, 6:41 pm

I can't even use chopsticks with fingers LOL



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05 Jan 2018, 7:21 pm

Yes I would love to be bilingual. I’m on my way back to NZ from HK, and it would open up a whole world of opportunities. Returning from a country where I know no Cantonese at all, it was really hard at times. I would like to try Mandarin first. I would also like to know Japanese and be able to read and write traditional and simplified Chinese, and Japanese.

One other big goal: Go to Japan.
Loving the positivity, keep the goals coming!



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05 Jan 2018, 8:00 pm

Good question :)

I want to surpass 123 sketchbook pages filled by December 31st, 2018.