Is she into me or just really nice

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There is this girl at my job and she always tells me hello when I arrive and tells me goodnight (I always leave at night). She speaks to me with a smile and strong eye contract. And she does this out of nowhere, I don't talk to her, she always speaks to me first. I give her no reason to talk to me.

If you want quotes of what she says then let me know

More info needed. Does she tell everyone hi and bye, or just you?

Insufficient data. No conclusion can be drawn. You need to ask her, not us.

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Ask her out on a date...




Chances are you're scared of asking her out, I know. It's scary to put yourself out there, to basically ask a girl out, especially if you're never done it before.

However, before you think about chickening out, remember this.

Has there ever been a girl you had a crush on and you let her walk away? Maybe it was a girl from your school, you talked to her for a little bit, maybe you didn't talk to her at all. And for whatever reason, you chickened out and now she's out of your life. And weeks later, months later, maybe even years later, you contemplate what would have happened had you of just asked her out. What if she would have said yes if I asked for her number? What if she would have said yes had I of asked her out on a date? And because you didn't take the chance, the only question you'll ever be asking is what if?

So don't see rejection as form of failure, see rejection as a form of relief. Because by taking charge and expressing interest in the girl you like, you now know whether or not she will say yes or no. You won't be asking yourself months from now, whether she would have gone out with you, now you know. And if she says no, will it hurt? Sure it will, but you will recover from it.

Rejection is like lifting weights. When you are new to lifting weights, chances are you get sore afterwards, but when you are used to working out, you don't get sore as much, and eventually to the point you don't get sore anymore. It's the same thing with rejection, the more rejection you get, the less of a big deal it becomes.

That's right. You'll never know for sure, unless you ask. That goes for men and women both. When you ask, not only will you get a definite answer (or you should, anyways), but even if they reject you, if will still give you good practice.