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I just want some advice, and some advice that won't drive this amazing person away from me. I get a lot of mutuals and matches on dating sites. I'm just not interested in those. I want this woman. So advice, much appreciated. Thanks.

BF could of been a ruse to stop unwanted advances , he could be real though. If you want the friendship to continue as is , don't change nothing. If you want to get out the friend zone maybe stop pretending to be indifferent to her and act attentive , show an interest in what she says and maybe be blunt about your feelings , if you don't tell her she may never know how you feel , maybe it's obvious and she already knows. ^ all this comes at a risk , you could f**k up a friendship but it might bring you closer. Do you know what , f**k what I just said I'm terrible at the dating game and unless it's offered to me on a plate I rarely knew if a girl wad truly interested in me , my current GF said it was hard work for me to realise she was interested and I fancied the arse off her

Whether he is real or not, it doesn’t matter.

If she likes you she wouldn’t even mention having a bf.

the way i see it, you have 3 options.

tell her, accept the consequences.
don't tell her, keep her in your heart, accept the consequences( i dont recommend this one)
don't tell her, kill your feelings for her however you can and move on.

choosing not to do anything, defaults you to option 2 or 3, with a ton of uncertainty and likely heartache for years to come, potentially.

going with option one... leads to two possible paths, at least.

choose your road.

Different advice all round, each with its own merits.

I think I'll bite the bullet this week coming.

Note to self: Don't post on WP when drunk

Thank you, guys.

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