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01 Jul 2018, 3:25 am

Lets just get this out of the bag, rather than “all women/men only want {x}”

What is your gender?
Would you date someone:

Outside of your race?
Outside of your culture?
Who was on a benefit?
Who worked part time?
Who worked full time?
Someone underweight?
Someone overweight?
Someone shorter than you?
Someone taller than you?
Someone with different religious beliefs?
Someone with different political leaning?
Someone smarter than you?
Someone less smart than you?
Outside of your socioeconomic class?
Someone with little to no personality?
Someone who too much personality?
Someone with no previous sexual partners?
Someone with many previous sexual partners?
A swinger?
An asexual?
A bisexual?
Someone with little to no depth?
Someone with a lot of depth?
Someone you shared no hobbies with?
Someone with a non aspergers related disability?
Someone who loves indoor plants?
Complicated minds?
Simple minds?
Someone with no car?
Someone who doesn’t own a house?
Someone independent?
Someone who farted or burped too much?
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand?
Someone allergic to animals?
A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair?



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01 Jul 2018, 3:58 am

What is your gender? male
Would you date someone:

Outside of your race? sure. Particularly Hispanic or Asian but I feel I wouldn’t really care regardless
Outside of your culture? bigger difference, so I’m uncertain. Pros and cons to everything, especially depending on whether they are in the US and which generation they are
Who was on a benefit? depends on the reason. Actually disabled? Too lazy to work? I would rather not have to be a caretaker, sorry to say, and would not take freeloaders
Who worked part time? I do, so sure
Who worked full time? only if I did as well. Female partners who out earn their male counterparts have typically been known to eventually trade up to a better provider, given they are successful at it
Someone underweight? define underweight. Something out of concentration camps or under the Berlin Wall are a bit extreme, but I find very few people to be unhealthily below average weight these days
Someone overweight? as overweight as I am, but it’s a bit moot as standards and stereotypes seem to be different between how “BBW” can be, and that “dad bod” amounts to a little chubby rather than obese
Someone shorter than you? yes but I’m already relatively short
Someone taller than you? probably not, if only due to the same issue as finance
Someone with different religious beliefs? depends how extreme they are...as an atheist I don’t mind friends with them, but in a relationship I can imagine zealots being a bit insufferable with their preaching and morals and possibly terrorism plots
Someone with different political leaning? in the past I may not have cared so much, but in the current climate, it’s hard for me to get along with those who look for anything to blame on Trump. Not a full on republican, rather raised democrat, but this attitude has illustrated to me all too well the blind faith in news networks and propaganda
Someone smarter than you? chances are I would not know for sure whether someone is actually smarter than me
Someone less smart than you? same as above, though if it seems we can’t communicate well, it’s not likely to hold my interest
Someone with little to no personality? no
Someone who too much personality? how do you really quantify that?
Someone with no previous sexual partners? sure, but only if they are willing to try sooner than later
Someone with many previous sexual partners? hard no. Don’t want STDs or promiscuity
A swinger? no
An asexual? no
A bisexual? only in the event it would mean bringing another woman in, but probably still no
Someone with little to no depth? no
Someone with a lot of depth? yes, unless it’s code word for baggage
Someone you shared no hobbies with? no
Someone with a non aspergers related disability? depends...have met a few, and between my autism and their disability, communication is often just not feasible
Someone who loves indoor plants? not really
Complicated minds? unsure
Simple minds? if that means they know what they want and can say so without mind games
Someone with no car? if they don’t mind that I don’t have one
Someone who doesn’t own a house? same as above
Someone independent? maybe


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01 Jul 2018, 4:24 am

hale_bopp wrote:

What is your gender?

Female

hale_bopp wrote:
Would you date someone:

My answers refer to date with a possible long term relationship in mind, not date just for practice or whatever.

hale_bopp wrote:
Outside of your race?

Yes, but some races are more likely than others as I'm on average more attracted to them
hale_bopp wrote:
Outside of your culture?

Depends, but if he strictly adheres to cultural values I strongly disagree with then not.
hale_bopp wrote:
Who was on a benefit?

'Was' means 'Is' here or at some point in the past. At some point in the past doesn't matter - probably, depending on the reason. Is may or may not matter depending on circumstances. He is not on a benefit for no reason. The reason matters.
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Who worked part time?

Yes.
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Who worked full time?

Yes.
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Someone underweight?

As long as it's not both extreme and can't change because it's due to some severe health issues that can't be improved.
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Someone overweight?

Not if it's extreme.
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Someone shorter than you?

Yes. If he's a lot shorter I'm probably less likely to be attracted to him. A bit shorter doesn't matter much.
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Someone taller than you?

Yes.
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Someone with different religious beliefs?

I wouldn't date anyone whose life or values are strongly influenced by religion.
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Someone with different political leaning?

I wouldn't date anyone whose political views are extremist. A bit a different political leaning is to be expected though. You just don't agree on everything.
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Someone smarter than you?

Yes, but not someone with obsessive enough interests that he ignores everything else.
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Someone less smart than you?

A bit less smart, yes. Someone outright stupid, no.
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Outside of your socioeconomic class?

It depends. Both very poor and very rich people don't tend to have a lot in common with me. If he's poor it's a matter of why and of will he always stay that way (e.g gambling dept is a deal breaker) in addition to the lessened likelihood that we have much in common.
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Someone with little to no personality?

No, but everyone has their own interpretation of who is a person with no personality. Maybe I'd date someone who you see as a person with no personality but I'd not date someone I see as a person with no personality.
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Someone who too much personality?

I don't like drama or absolute selfishness. If that's what you mean with too much personality, then no. If you just mean someone who has a lot of opinions on everything then yes but it depends on the opinions.
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Someone with no previous sexual partners?

Yes. (Unless he meets some of the nasty stereotypes about male virgins but as far as I know there are enough male virgins who don't)
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Someone with many previous sexual partners?

It's not a definite deal-breaker but if I don't have any reason to assume that I'll be different for him than his previous partners I won't assume that I'm different and that he actually wants a long term relationship. It's unlikely that I'd have a reason to assume I'm different.
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A swinger?

Very unlikely.
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An asexual?

Not a definite deal-breaker but it's not preferable.
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A bisexual?

Yes, it's irrelevant.
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Someone with little to no depth?

No, not someone I perceive as having no depth but that's again something where not everyone has the same idea of what that means.
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Someone with a lot of depth?

Yes, but not someone who's trying too hard to be a philosopher or someone who needs to make everything complicated no matter how simple it is.
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Someone you shared no hobbies with?

Unlikely.
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Someone with a non aspergers related disability?

Depends on the disability. Some yes, others no.
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Someone who loves indoor plants?

Yes, I neither need nor mind them, though I prefer having a few.
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Complicated minds?

I'm really not sure what that means to you.
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Simple minds?

Probably not.
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Someone with no car?

Yes.
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Someone who doesn’t own a house?

Yes.
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Someone independent?

Independent yes, but someone who can't have an emotional connection to another person, no.
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Someone who farted or burped too much?

If it's a medical condition then yes, if that's his sense of humor then no definitely not.
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Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand?

No.
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Someone allergic to animals?

Yes, although I do like animals but I don't need pets.
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A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair?

I don't date women.



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01 Jul 2018, 5:24 am

I find the list useless. I don't create long lists like that. I only require a natural connection and unconditional love. The rest is optional. Things also must start with a crush, not as friends or with dating.



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01 Jul 2018, 5:28 am

Ooh a quiz, fun!

What is your gender? Female
Would you date* someone:

(* Technically I'd probably date any of these because I might not know these things about them straight away, so my responses assume I know these things about them beforehand.)

Outside of your race? Yes
Outside of your culture? Yes
Who was on a benefit? Yes
Who worked part time? Yes
Who worked full time? Yes
Someone underweight? Yes
Someone overweight? Yes
Someone shorter than you? Yes
Someone taller than you? Yes
Someone with different religious beliefs? No
Someone with different political leaning? No
Someone smarter than you? Yes
Someone less smart than you? Yes
Outside of your socioeconomic class? Yes
Someone with little to no personality? No
Someone who too much personality? No
Someone with no previous sexual partners? Yes
Someone with many previous sexual partners? Yes
A swinger? No
An asexual? No
A bisexual? Yes
Someone with little to no depth? No
Someone with a lot of depth? Yes
Someone you shared no hobbies with? Yes
Someone with a non aspergers related disability? Yes
Someone who loves indoor plants? Yes (haha wtf)
Complicated minds? Yes
Simple minds? Yes
Someone with no car? Yes
Someone who doesn’t own a house? Yes
Someone independent? Yes
Someone who farted or burped too much? No
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand? No
Someone allergic to animals? Yes
A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair? Yes



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01 Jul 2018, 6:03 am

rdos wrote:
I find the list useless. I don't create long lists like that. I only require a natural connection and unconditional love. The rest is optional. Things also must start with a crush, not as friends or with dating.


It’s not a list I would recommend is a good idea to have. I just want to learn more about the people here, an investment for the brain.
I would assume your answer to all of those would be “yes” then.



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01 Jul 2018, 7:05 am

Fun idea!

What is your gender? Male
Would you date someone:

Outside of your race? Yes
Outside of your culture? Yes
Who was on a benefit? Yes
Who worked part time? Yes
Who worked full time? Yes
Someone underweight? Yes
Someone overweight? Yes
Someone shorter than you? Yes
Someone taller than you? Yes, but that would be spooky tall.
Someone with different religious beliefs? Yes, although someone who is too obsessive about it might be too much.
Someone with different political leaning? Yes, although someone who is too obsessive about it might be too much
Someone smarter than you? Sure, that would be great
Someone less smart than you? Sure, that's fine too!
Outside of your socioeconomic class? Yes
Someone with little to no personality? I think Yes, but boredom would be a serious concern, unless you mean shy and reserved with emotions, then that's absolutely understandable to me.
Someone who too much personality? Yes, unless you mean super extroverted and aggressive, that might be too much.
Someone with no previous sexual partners? Sure
Someone with many previous sexual partners? Sure
A swinger? Does that mean I have to participate in that lifestyle too? if so, NO
An asexual? Yes
A bisexual? Yes, can't blame someone for liking the same thing as me :lol:
Someone with little to no depth? Not automatic deal-breaker but boredom would be an issue.
Someone with a lot of depth? Sure
Someone you shared no hobbies with? Yes, I find a lot of things interesting, so likely I'd appreciate their hobbies even if I don't do them myself.
Someone with a non Asperger related disability? Sure, but having disabilities myself, I'd be concerned about my ability to provide everything they need if it's particularly severe, but I could try.
Someone who loves indoor plants? Absolutely, cacti in particular I find adorable.
Complicated minds? Yes
Simple minds? Yes
Someone with no car? Yes
Someone who doesn’t own a house? Yep
Someone independent? Yes
Someone who farted or burped too much? Yes, but like Tamarin said, I don't find it funny though.
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand? How would we be dating then? I love trying to figure out the meaning of words, so perhaps that might be an actually interesting experience.
Someone allergic to animals? As long as it isn't sloths 8O
A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair? Yep


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01 Jul 2018, 7:38 am

hale_bopp wrote:
rdos wrote:
I find the list useless. I don't create long lists like that. I only require a natural connection and unconditional love. The rest is optional. Things also must start with a crush, not as friends or with dating.


It’s not a list I would recommend is a good idea to have. I just want to learn more about the people here, an investment for the brain.
I would assume your answer to all of those would be “yes” then.


What is your gender? Male
Would you date someone: Wouldn't do dating, so answers relate to who I would consider relationship material

Outside of your race? Yes, but I'm only attracted to Caucasians, Asians and American Indians and so would not consider women of African descent
Outside of your culture? Yes, unless it is Middle Eastern or African
Who was on a benefit? Yes
Who worked part time? Yes
Who worked full time? Yes
Someone underweight? Yes
Someone overweight? Maybe
Someone shorter than you? Yes
Someone taller than you? Yes
Someone with different religious beliefs? Yes, unless it is Islam
Someone with different political leaning? Yes
Someone smarter than you? Yes
Someone less smart than you? Yes
Outside of your socioeconomic class? Yes
Someone with little to no personality? No
Someone who too much personality? Yes
Someone with no previous sexual partners? Yes
Someone with many previous sexual partners? Maybe
A swinger? No
An asexual? Yes
A bisexual? Yes
Someone with little to no depth? No
Someone with a lot of depth? Yes
Someone you shared no hobbies with? Yes
Someone with a non aspergers related disability? Yes
Someone who loves indoor plants? Yes
Complicated minds? Yes
Simple minds? Maybe
Someone with no car? Yes
Someone who doesn’t own a house? Yes
Someone independent? Yes
Someone who farted or burped too much? Yes
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand? Yes
Someone allergic to animals? Yes
A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair? Yes



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01 Jul 2018, 8:08 am

What is your gender? Female
Would you date someone:

Outside of your race? Sure
Outside of your culture? Maybe
Who was on a benefit? Maybe but probably not
Who worked part time? Maybe
Who worked full time?Yep
Someone underweight?Maybe
Someone overweight?Maybe but that depends, how overweight are we talking?
Someone shorter than you? Sure, I have done that
Someone taller than you? Sure, I have done that
Someone with different religious beliefs?This is dealbreaker number 1. No. No religion.
Someone with different political leaning?And this is dealbreaker number 2. If you're not liberal/progressive, nope.
Someone smarter than you? Sure
Someone less smart than you?Meh - maybe, but unlikely.
Outside of your socioeconomic class?Eh... maybe.
Someone with little to no personality? Eh - probably not.
Someone who too much personality? Probably not. That's almost as bad as no personality.
Someone with no previous sexual partners? Er... well, that would depend on WHY they had no previous sexual partners.
Someone with many previous sexual partners? Er... well, see above.
A swinger? Nope
An asexual?Eh - probably not.
A bisexual?Nope
Someone with little to no depth?Probably not
Someone with a lot of depth?Sure
Someone you shared no hobbies with?Possibly
Someone with a non aspergers related disability?That depends on what it was, but probably not.
Someone who loves indoor plants?Sure
Complicated minds?Sure
Simple minds?Probably not
Someone with no car?If they lived in the city, sure. Otherwise, that depends on WHY they don't have a car, but probably not. I went on one date with a guy a long time ago whose mom had to bring him to the date and then pick him up. That's a no. I don't care what the reason is. That's a no.
Someone who doesn’t own a house?Sure
Someone independent?Yep
Someone who farted or burped too much?Probably not, unless it's related to some medical condition, and even then, probably not
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand?Probably not
Someone allergic to animals?Probably not
A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair?[/quote]Not applicable to me


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01 Jul 2018, 9:20 am

hale_bopp wrote:
I just want to learn more about the people here, an investment for the brain.

Ah. I wasn't sure if you actually wanted us to fill it out, or if it was rhetorical :oops: When are you filling yours out?


What is your gender? Boy since birth.
Would you date someone:

Outside of your race? Preferably, yes.
Outside of your culture? I guess it depends. If it's like a foreign culture, that would be interesting, but if it's something like "trashy gutter culture", not so much.
Who was on a benefit? Probably.
Who worked part time? Probably.
Who worked full time? Yes.
Someone underweight? Yes, but I would be sad if she had an eating disorder.
Someone overweight? It depends on how much. I can understand if you just have bad genetics, or whatever might be going on, but it's kind of a turn-off when a girl just doesn't care about her own body. It's hard to love somebody who doesn't love themself.
Someone shorter than you? Preferably, yes.
Someone taller than you? I have never, but I might consider it. I'm kind of short, and most girls I've dated don't like to date guys shorter than them.
Someone with different religious beliefs? I don't even know where my beliefs lie anymore, so yes. I'm not sure if I could be serious with an athiest, though.
Someone with different political leaning? I really don't care about politics, but I feel like having similar moral beliefs can be important.
Someone smarter than you? This one's weird for me...I definitely like intelligent girls, but there are certain types of personalities (male and female), where I just feel like a stupid idiot whenever we talk.
Someone less smart than you? I have before, but it's definitely a turn-off for me.
Outside of your socioeconomic class? TBH, I don't know what this means :oops: Like a social class?
Someone with little to no personality? Probably not.
Someone who too much personality? Uhhh...I might be persuaded, but people like that usually overwhelm me.
Someone with no previous sexual partners? Of course.
Someone with many previous sexual partners? I have before. It made me a little uncomfortable, but it's not like it's any of my business.
A swinger? Probably not.
An asexual? I would consider it, but I feel like it would eventually become frustrating.
A bisexual? I have before.
Someone with little to no depth? How does "depth" differ from "personality"?
Someone with a lot of depth? Ditto.
Someone you shared no hobbies with? Hmm...I usually share few hobbies, but no hobbies at all, I'm not sure. I know one time I dated a girl who didn't have any hobbies, and it really weirded me out.
Someone with a non aspergers related disability? Yes.
Someone who loves indoor plants? That's a weird question, but yes I would. I like indoor plants, but I have a knack for killing them =/
Complicated minds? Yes.
Simple minds? No.
Someone with no car? This is a tough one. I have a car, but I really don't like driving, I usually let the girl drive.
Someone who doesn’t own a house? There aren't a lot of home-owners these days, so yes.
Someone independent? Sure.
Someone who farted or burped too much? Uhhh, maybe.
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand? That would be an interesting scenario, the story between Jamie and Aurélia in Love Actually was probably my favorite.
Someone allergic to animals? My last GF was allergic to cats, but she loves them and bought us some, and she slowly got better.
A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair? Hmm, maybe?

Is it alright if we add more questions to it?:

Someone who is polyamorous?
Who is "saving it" for marriage?
The opposite gender?
A trans woman?
A trans man?
Is neurotypical?
Has kids?
Doesn't want kids?
Living with parents?
No job (and no benefits)?
Long distance?
Is married?
Is divorced/widowed?
Is infertile/sterile?
Smokes tobacco? Vapes? Drugs, alcohol, etc? (that might be too big of a debate)
I feel like I'm just stealing from OKCupid's lists, now...


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01 Jul 2018, 9:42 am

What is your gender? Male
Would you date someone:

Outside of your race? Yes
Outside of your culture? Yes
Who was on a benefit? Yes
Who worked part time? Yes
Who worked full time? Yes
Someone underweight? Yes
Someone overweight? Yes
Someone shorter than you? Yes
Someone taller than you? Yes
Someone with different religious beliefs? Yes, providing it was a personal belief
Someone with different political leaning? Yes, providing we shared the same core values
Someone smarter than you? Yes
Someone less smart than you? Yes
Outside of your socioeconomic class? Yes
Someone with little to no personality? I don't really know what's meant by this. I'm fine if someone is a bit boring on the outside
Someone who too much personality? I would struggle with someone who was really outgoing
Someone with no previous sexual partners? Yes
Someone with many previous sexual partners? This would depend on the circumstances. Everyone has a past but if it was like a new person every week I think I would struggle
A swinger? No
An asexual? Potentially.
A bisexual? As I'm bisexual myself it would be hypocritical to say no to this.
Someone with little to no depth? No
Someone with a lot of depth? Yes
Someone you shared no hobbies with? Yes, I think you would develop some shared interests over time and that at first a relationship just needs two people who understand each other and can cope in a crisis together
Someone with a non aspergers related disability? Yes
Someone who loves indoor plants? Yes, I'm not sure why this would be an issue
Complicated minds? Yes
Simple minds? No, in the sense that I would like to have conversation and this would prevent that.
Someone with no car? Yes
Someone who doesn’t own a house? Yes
Someone independent? Yes
Someone who farted or burped too much? Yes
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand? No, not sure how that would function as a relationship if you couldn't communicate
Someone allergic to animals? Yes
A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair? Yes



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01 Jul 2018, 10:09 am

What is your gender? Male.

Would you date someone:
Outside of your race?
Absolutely. In fact, I have a soft spot for Asian women.
Outside of your culture? Yes.
Who was on a benefit? Sure. I don't care how my partner gets her income.
Who worked part/full time? See above.
Someone under-/overweight? As long as it's within a reasonable threshold, yes.
Someone shorter/taller than you? Yes.
Someone with different religious beliefs? Yes, as long as she enjoys a discussion/debate on the subject once in a while.
Someone with different political leaning? Yes.
Someone smarter/less smart than you? Yes, as long as she still has common sense.
Outside of your socioeconomic class? Yes.
Someone with little to no personality? Not necessarily.
Someone with too much personality? Too much personality is better than none, so...
Someone with no previous sexual partners? Yes - in fact, I'd find this ideal.
Someone with many previous sexual partners? Sure. I don't slut shame.
A swinger? Eh, probably not.
An asexual? I'm not entirely opposed to the idea, but ideally, I'd like someone I can experience the joy of sex with.
A bisexual? Yes.
Someone with little to no depth? Probably not.
Someone with a lot of depth? Absolutely.
Someone you shared no hobbies with? Sure, although at least one common hobby would be a huge benefit.
Someone with a non aspergers related disability? Yes.
Someone who loves indoor plants? Yes.
Complicated minds? I'm sort of a complicated mind myself, so yes.
Simple minds? Sure.
Someone with no car? Yes.
Someone who doesn’t own a house? Yes.
Someone independent?
Someone who farted or burped too much? Define "too much".
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand? Yes.
Someone allergic to animals? As long as she's not allergic to dogs, yes.
A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair? Yes.


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01 Jul 2018, 10:13 am

What is your gender?---FEMALE
Would you date someone:

Outside of your race?---YES
Outside of your culture?---YES we would need to have the same values
Who was on a benefit?---YES
Who worked part time?---YES
Who worked full time?---YES
Someone underweight?---YES
Someone overweight?---YES
Someone shorter than you?---YES as far as I can guess
Someone taller than you?---YES
Someone with different religious beliefs?---YES as long as we shared the same values
Someone with different political leaning?---YES I'd date a conservative (UK) but not like BNP
Someone smarter than you?---YES as long as it's not in everything
Someone less smart than you?---YES as long as it's not in everything
Outside of your socioeconomic class?---YES as long as we could agree over lifestyle, I don't do fancy.
Someone with little to no personality?---YES if you mean shy.
Someone who too much personality?---NO I just don't find showy men attractive
Someone with no previous sexual partners?---YES
Someone with many previous sexual partners?---YES
A swinger?---NO
An asexual?---NO
A bisexual?---PROBABLY NOT
Someone with little to no depth?---NO
Someone with a lot of depth?---YES
Someone you shared no hobbies with?---YES as long as they can go do their own thing
Someone with a non aspergers related disability?---YES
Someone who loves indoor plants?---YES as long as the love is strictly platonic :D
Complicated minds?---YES unless you mean they play mind games and then NO!
Simple minds?---YES as long as he does think about things
Someone with no car?---YES
Someone who doesn’t own a house?---YES
Someone independent?---YES! YES! YES! I need my space
Someone who farted or burped too much?---NO I would find this really unattractive
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand?---YES but only if there is another way to communicate well.
Someone allergic to animals?---YES
A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair?---NA



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01 Jul 2018, 10:24 am

SabbraCadabra wrote:
Is it alright if we add more questions to it?:


Sure. Those are a bit more interesting.

Someone who is polyamorous? Yes
Who is "saving it" for marriage? Yes
The opposite gender? Yes
A trans woman? No
A trans man? No
Is neurotypical? No
Has kids? No
Doesn't want kids? Yes
Living with parents? Yes
No job (and no benefits)? Yes
Long distance? No
Is married? Maybe
Is divorced/widowed? Yes
Is infertile/sterile? Yes
Smokes tobacco? Vapes? Drugs, alcohol, etc? (that might be too big of a debate) No



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01 Jul 2018, 10:40 am

What is your gender? :arrow:
Male.

Would you date someone: :arrow:

Outside of your race? :arrow:
Yes.

Outside of your culture? :arrow:
I would of went the male-order bride route if I had the money & resources.

Who was on a benefit? :arrow:
I've been on benefits for many years & my current girlfriend was on benefits when we got together & she still is.

Who worked part time? :arrow:
Yes.

Who worked full time? :arrow:
Yes.

Someone underweight? :arrow:
Yes.

Someone overweight? :arrow:
My current girlfriend is big & so was my 2nd girlfriend.

Someone shorter than you? :arrow:
My 1st & 2nd girlfriends were abit shorter than me but height doesn't bother me so thou I'd prefer shorter than taller.

Someone taller than you? :arrow:
Yes

Someone with different religious beliefs? :arrow:
I'm a Secular Humanist & my current girlfriend is a Pantheist. What's important is that we respect each others beliefs.

Someone with different political leaning? :arrow:
Yes as long as she could respect my political beliefs

Someone smarter than you? :arrow:
My 2nd girlfriend was smarter than me & she acted like my opinion & ideas within our realtionship didn't mater as much because of it so I preferred someone less smart but not being smarter than me was never a requirement persay.

Someone less smart than you? :arrow:
I'm more attracted to women less smart than me because it's funny & cute & I figure they're less likely to put me down for not being as smart as a typical person.

Outside of your socioeconomic class? :arrow:
I'm poor due to being disabled so someone outside my class would be richer which wouldn't bother me.

Someone with little to no personality? :arrow:
People think I'm boring so I figure a wet napkin would be more relatable.

Someone who too much personality? :arrow:
It may get on my nerves but that was never a requirement.

Someone with no previous sexual partners? :arrow:
Me & my current girlfriend were both virgins when we got together & I think both my exes were too.

Someone with many previous sexual partners? :arrow:
I prefer not but it's not a requirement.

A swinger? :arrow:
I don't think we'd be compatible.

An asexual? :arrow:
I'm on the asexuality spectrum myself & have used asexual dating sites.

A bisexual? :arrow:
My current girlfriend is Pansexual & bi-curious so I don't think bisesuality would bother me.

Someone with little to no depth? :arrow:
It wouldn't bother me at all.

Someone with a lot of depth? :arrow:
If she'd be OK with me not having much I wouldn't have a problem with it like my current girlfriend is.

Someone you shared no hobbies with? :arrow:
I'd try to engage in hers or just spend time with her while she engages with them by herself.

Someone with a non aspergers related disability? :arrow:
I have more than my fair share of nonAS related disabilities & my current girlfriend has some too.

Someone who loves indoor plants? :arrow:
I fail to grasp why anyone would see this as a problem.

Complicated minds? :arrow:
My current girlfriend has a complicated mind.

Simple minds? :arrow:
In some ways I think I have a simple mind so it wouldn't bother me if she did.

Someone with no car? :arrow:
I cant drive cuz my vision is too bad & my current girlfriend cant drive cuz of anxiety so we walk or take public transportation.

Someone who doesn’t own a house? :arrow:
I lived with my parents till I moved in with my current girlfriend & she lived in an apartment that Secion 8 paid most of her rent on.

Someone independent? :arrow:
I'm dependent & my 2nd girlfriend was independent or at least wanted to be & we clashed because of it so I'd prefer dependent but being dependent was never a requirement persay.

Someone who farted or burped too much? :arrow:
I fart & burp alot due to gastrointestinal issues & I tend to find it funny when others due or cute when my girlfriend does.

Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand? :arrow:
I'd try to learn her language some if she was trying to learn English.

Someone allergic to animals? :arrow:
If she was still OK with me having a pet. Me & my current girlfriend are both allergic to animals & we both have pets that the other is allergic too. We both take allergy medication daily.

A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair? :arrow:
I prefer it if she shaved down there cuz I do but it's not a requirement or anything.


Is it alright if we add more questions to it?: :arrow:
Sure.

Someone who is polyamorous? :arrow:
If she's OK with the idea of both of us dating my celeb crush or is accepting that she cant date anyone but me.

Who is "saving it" for marriage? :arrow:
Sex isn't that important to me so it wouldn't bother me.

The opposite gender? :arrow:
If she's a woman gender Sure.

A trans woman? :arrow:
Probably.

A trans man?
My 2nd girlfriend kind of wanted to me one & I had a hard time dealing with it so I don't think so.

Is neurotypical? :arrow:
My 1st girlfriend was & my personality is kind of unlike the typical Aspies within relationships cuz I'm very affectionate, think being supportive is my strong point & I LOVE spending time with my partner. My problem was NT women wouldn't give me a chance.

Has kids? :arrow:
No cuz I cant handle being a parent.

Doesn't want kids? :arrow:
Hell Yeah.

Living with parents? :arrow:
No problem there.

No job (and no benefits)? :arrow:
If she was still willing to be with me cuz I'm poor then sure.

Long distance? :arrow:
I've done the long distance thing with all 3 of my girlfriends till I moved across the country to be with my current.

Is divorced/widowed? :arrow:
Yeah

Is infertile/sterile? :arrow:
I don't want kids so this wouldn't be a problem at all.

Smokes tobacco? Vapes? Drugs, alcohol, etc? (that might be too big of a debate) :arrow:
I prefer no smoking or vaping & no illegal drugs but pot in moderation & only drinking in moderation cuz my 1st girlfriend had problems with drugs & alcohol & I tried to get her to quit. However I'd be willing to give anyone a chance & don't think it'll bother me as much as it bothered me when Emily was cuz I grew/learned/matured since then.


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01 Jul 2018, 1:07 pm

What is your gender? Male
Would you date someone:

Outside of your race? Yes, done it twice
Outside of your culture? Yes
Who was on a benefit? Yes
Who worked part time? Yes
Who worked full time? Yes
Someone underweight? Yes
Someone overweight? Yes
Someone shorter than you? Yes
Someone taller than you? Yes
Someone with different religious beliefs? Yes, so long as they don't practice a extreme militant variant of said religion.
Someone with different political leaning? Yes, but no extremism.
Someone smarter than you? Yes
Someone less smart than you? Yes
Outside of your socioeconomic class? Yes
Someone with little to no personality? Yes
Someone who too much personality? Yes
Someone with no previous sexual partners? Yes, provided they have a very high sex drive
Someone with many previous sexual partners? Same as above
A swinger? No
An asexual? No
A bisexual? Yes
Someone with little to no depth? Define this
Someone with a lot of depth? Define this
Someone you shared no hobbies with? No
Someone with a non aspergers related disability? Yes
Someone who loves indoor plants? Yes
Complicated minds? Define this
Simple minds? Define this
Someone with no car? Yes
Someone who doesn’t own a house? Yes
Someone independent? Yes, prefer this, but not a dealbreaker
Someone who farted or burped too much? Yes, but there is no "too much"
Someone who doesn’t speak a language you understand? If they also know English, yes
Someone allergic to animals? Depends on the animal
A woman who doesn’t remove her body hair? Yes


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