No, I agree he should have high standards.
Just a minor nitpick—is the OP actually being reasonable, though? I have no problem with someone making superficial judgments. But I do tend to question the real value of university degrees. I often think that smarter people don’t need a piece of paper to show their intelligence. It USED to mean something. I have a master’s degree and am in love with learning. But I’m learning Python coding on my own, quickly picked up Puredata just by watching a couple Cheetomoskeeto vids on YouTube, and the musical projects I’m doing in my personal time are doctoral dissertation-worthy. Women who are not so academically oriented may find themselves working retail to support the household and pull the bulk of housework and chores, but that in itself is HIGHLY valuable and worthy work and, in its own way, intellectually challenging. People with degrees may tend to lack an interest in “menial” work, lack the organization to carry a house on their own, or be too consumed by scholarship to notice a romantic partner.
I’ve dated a girl who didn’t shave anything. It wasn’t so bad. She had albinism, so I had this mental image of taking clippers to her and shearing her like a sheep. The poor girl hadn’t considered she ever might even have a bf, so she just never took care of business. I figured she was beautiful the way she was, so I never brought up again after the first time I touched her legs. Who knows? Maybe your girl might be up for it if you just ask. Maybe she never thought she had reason to shave.
If you’re not interested, you’re not interested. If it were me, I’d just want to make sure I’m not selling myself short.