Am I meant to be single and alone forever?

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In my 36 years of living,I never had a girlfriend before and it's starting seem men like me are meant to be single and alone forever.Due to my Social Awkwardness,I have been called beta male,not a real man,creepy,etc.Women nowadays are not even willing to talk to me anymore,therefore they don't even try to get know me,tho the same could said to people of the same gender as me as well. I'm starting to think I was never meant to be loved in the first place and I was too naive to realize that. Perhaps I was meant to have no friends.

Have you considered getting into existentialist philosophy? The existentialist position is basically is that none of us are meant to be here, and no aspect of our lives is by design or part of a higher purpose. In the absence of a design or purpose determined by $DEITY, we are free to decide for ourselves the purpose and meaning of our lives.

Everything you are right now is the sum of your own choices and the consequences of other people's choices. What you should be asking yourself right now is, What do you want, and what will you do to get it? What do you want the meaning of your life to be? If you don't decide that for yourself, somebody else will and it will be to their benefit rather than yours.