18 Jul 2020, 10:04 pm
So I put myself out there through fb... Help the guys won't leave me alone now... 
Tips...
19 Jul 2020, 7:38 am
19 Jul 2020, 7:59 am
Angnix wrote:
Nevermind I deleted my profile... Way too many men were after me and it made me nervous....
What did you expect? The ratio of men and women is about 10 to 1 there just because it's unlikely to emotional connect over internet as most NT women expect to do.
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19 Jul 2020, 7:15 pm
If you want something slower, "coffee meets bagel" will only give you a few matches a day, and then you decide if you want to message them or not.
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
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20 Jul 2020, 2:38 am
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
If you want something slower, "coffee meets bagel" will only give you a few matches a day, and then you decide if you want to message them or not.
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
I never try coffee meet bagel, why the funny name.
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20 Jul 2020, 3:08 am
Kitty4670 wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
If you want something slower, "coffee meets bagel" will only give you a few matches a day, and then you decide if you want to message them or not.
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
I never try coffee meet bagel, why the funny name.
I like the name. I think it's trying to create a cosy, intimate feeling of association and also a play on words. Like burger and chips or pastrama on rye, things that fit well together Boy meets girl= bagel meets coffee. It actually conjures up to me a nice, safe, familiar picture that's very smart
It gives you a subliminal image of meeting a guy over coffee and bagels and you proceed with making dates on the site with this conditioning they have planted in your brain. TMI I know 
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20 Jul 2020, 5:22 pm
Teach51 wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
If you want something slower, "coffee meets bagel" will only give you a few matches a day, and then you decide if you want to message them or not.
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
I never try coffee meet bagel, why the funny name.
I like the name. I think it's trying to create a cosy, intimate feeling of association and also a play on words. Like burger and chips or pastrama on rye, things that fit well together Boy meets girl= bagel meets coffee. It actually conjures up to me a nice, safe, familiar picture that's very smart
It gives you a subliminal image of meeting a guy over coffee and bagels and you proceed with making dates on the site with this conditioning they have planted in your brain. TMI I know I'm pretty sure you described exactly what the creators intended!
FWIW, I got the most dates out of coffee meets bagel, and all of the guys were nice and polite.
20 Jul 2020, 6:21 pm
24 Jul 2020, 3:43 pm
Teach51 wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
If you want something slower, "coffee meets bagel" will only give you a few matches a day, and then you decide if you want to message them or not.
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
I never try coffee meet bagel, why the funny name.
I like the name. I think it's trying to create a cosy, intimate feeling of association and also a play on words. Like burger and chips or pastrama on rye, things that fit well together Boy meets girl= bagel meets coffee. It actually conjures up to me a nice, safe, familiar picture that's very smart
It gives you a subliminal image of meeting a guy over coffee and bagels and you proceed with making dates on the site with this conditioning they have planted in your brain. TMI I know You probably right, I will try the dating site.
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25 Jul 2020, 10:21 am
Kitty4670 wrote:
Teach51 wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
If you want something slower, "coffee meets bagel" will only give you a few matches a day, and then you decide if you want to message them or not.
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
I never try coffee meet bagel, why the funny name.
I like the name. I think it's trying to create a cosy, intimate feeling of association and also a play on words. Like burger and chips or pastrama on rye, things that fit well together Boy meets girl= bagel meets coffee. It actually conjures up to me a nice, safe, familiar picture that's very smart
It gives you a subliminal image of meeting a guy over coffee and bagels and you proceed with making dates on the site with this conditioning they have planted in your brain. TMI I know You probably right, I will try the dating site.
I still think you would be better off meeting real people in a safe environment in your own community Kitty.
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26 Jul 2020, 2:25 am
Teach51 wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
Teach51 wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
If you want something slower, "coffee meets bagel" will only give you a few matches a day, and then you decide if you want to message them or not.
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
I never try coffee meet bagel, why the funny name.
I like the name. I think it's trying to create a cosy, intimate feeling of association and also a play on words. Like burger and chips or pastrama on rye, things that fit well together Boy meets girl= bagel meets coffee. It actually conjures up to me a nice, safe, familiar picture that's very smart
It gives you a subliminal image of meeting a guy over coffee and bagels and you proceed with making dates on the site with this conditioning they have planted in your brain. TMI I know You probably right, I will try the dating site.
I still think you would be better off meeting real people in a safe environment in your own community Kitty.
This is a bad advice.
She explained before that she can’t go out much and has no social life; dating app is her only way to communicate with men and to have a chance to find someone.
It is as if you are telling her “stop it; just give up.”
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26 Jul 2020, 3:04 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Teach51 wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
Teach51 wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
If you want something slower, "coffee meets bagel" will only give you a few matches a day, and then you decide if you want to message them or not.
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
Taking a break is good, too, if that is what you prefer!
I never try coffee meet bagel, why the funny name.
I like the name. I think it's trying to create a cosy, intimate feeling of association and also a play on words. Like burger and chips or pastrama on rye, things that fit well together Boy meets girl= bagel meets coffee. It actually conjures up to me a nice, safe, familiar picture that's very smart
It gives you a subliminal image of meeting a guy over coffee and bagels and you proceed with making dates on the site with this conditioning they have planted in your brain. TMI I know You probably right, I will try the dating site.
I still think you would be better off meeting real people in a safe environment in your own community Kitty.
This is a bad advice.
She explained before that she can’t go out much and has no social life; dating app is her only way to communicate with men and to have a chance to find someone.
It is as if you are telling her “stop it; just give up.”
Hmmm okay, I can see the logic in that. My only concern is that Kitty meets scammers all the time and the chances for anyone to find a decent long-term partner online are not great. I am more concerned for her safety than anything else.
