What do you want/look for/need in a relationship? :)

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What do you want/look for/need in a relationship?

1) PERSONALITY I'm not gonna lie, not big on looks. I'm big on personality. I don't care if your hair is straight or curly. I don't care what race you are. I just wanna get to know the person I'm with. The real them. 

2) 50/50 If there is a problem I am going to work it out with you before it becomes a problem again. If you are mad yeah I'll give you time to think it over

3) ANIMALS I am a big animal person. If you are not that's ok just get used to having your phone blown up with animals I photographed when you wake up.

4) PLEASING when it comes to pleasing you I wanna know what makes you feel good. I wanna know what makes you happy. I'm good on body language and can pick up on subtle clues, but I doubt myself and overthink so verbally expressing that you are pleased doesnt hurt.

5) TRUST If I let you in. If I let you close to me. If I let down my wall just promise not to hurt me. Me letting down my wall is extremely rare and I only let a few people close. (Personal reasons). If I let you in please promise not to hurt me.

6) EMOTIONS on days you are down Im gonna take you out. Drive around listening to playlists, have a picnic in the park, and gaze at the stars while holding you close. ( I swear if someone comments simp. Yes I am a simp. I will do anything to show the person I am with is mine. I mean like kissing her infront of people that want me. I mean going on cheesy dates candle lit dinners, camping).

7) SAFETY If I let you in than I'm willing to risk my life for you. Someone hurts you we have a problem. People I let in I value over myself.

8 ) CHORES & COOKING don't worry about that. I know how to cook. Yes I mean really cook, as in from scratch. Lasagna, rice, ribs, spagetti n' meatballs, chicken pot pie, ect... I know how to clean to. I can mop, vacuum, and iron. Yes I know how to do laundry and work the machines.

9) IMPERFECT I mean like soul wise. Im just kinda drawn to "broken" people. I don't want to date someone who has no problems. I like the "broken" ones cause I actually feel like they understand my thought process and that this world is a traumatic place sometimes. I am going to be there for them when their in a dark place. I am not the type to give up on something when things get hard. If I care for you I am going to fight your demons with you. Even if it means acquiring some new ones.

10) LOYALTY that's hard to find thes days, but loyalty is a must. I don't care if you hang with your ex just tell me were your going and when your going to be back. If you are going to a party and I'm not going call me and I'll be there to pick you up or put a douche in their place. All I need from you is your loyalty.

11) CONSENT I am big on this. Before I kiss someone I am going to ask if I can. Even then I will ask even if we have been together for a while.

Feel like I just rambled for days.... But turn ons..... 

1) INNOCENCE I don't know why I am drawn to innocence. It just makes me smile watching them blush. It is just cute watching y'all innocent one be like did she just say that expression. It is hilarious somewhat too.

2) BRATS No I'm not into the taming with belts. I am not gonna leave marks on your body from a belt or toy. (~~~~Nah that's my job~~~~) Oop. I'm more into edging. I like the attitude they have and the way they think they can get away with it. 





P.S. I am with someone. <3

When I was single I mostly wanted a girl who would give me a real chance & who would put forth effort into trying to make a relationship work with me. Also No kids, & not much older than me. Other things I liked & wanted was someone who's very affectionate, & kinda needy & clingy. Also someone who was not super smart. I should explain the smart thing. I struggled MAJORLY in school & throughout my life it's been very common for people to look down on me for lots of reasons including me being ret*d. When it comes to romantic relationships someone very smart would not value my input because she'd believe that she knows better. I also find stupid things funny & cute.

Someone who wants a platonic, and not a romantic relationship. <3

Pepe, what is the difference?

Someone who isn't just using me as company until they meet "the one".

Hurtloam, Yea I didn't think about that.

I'm like good luck chuck. They always meet the one they're gonna marry whilst stringing me along. I'm never enough, just enough to be entertaining.

Hurtloam, I'm sorry to hear that.

I did deep research, recently, on different types of relationships.

By definition:
A "romantic" relationship implicitly mean a sexual one.
A platonic relationship is one not involving a sexual component.

It's a bit more complicated than that. People can have romantic relationships without sex like older couples, couples doing an LDR, a couple where one has a medical condition, or asexuals.

I look for someone with good communication skills, responsible, high sex drive, good career (or potential for good career), family-oriented, adventurous, empathetic, clean, good sense of humor, and at least a couple of similar hobbies.

A real actual connection. I have yet to find one.

Not based on the definitions.
Older people, not indulging is sex, would have a loving *Platonic* relationship.
A *Romantic* relationship *necessitates* a sexual component.

You do know you can luv someone platonically, right?
It is not the same as a platonic *friendship*.