What approach should i use?

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I'm interested in this girl, i can hang out with her nicely and we can converse smoothly (about serious things and simple comical things). On that territory, all is okay.
I'm also sensing some signals that she likes me.

What I'm wondering now is how i should take the step towards a relationship. Should i take it very slow and easy and talk a lot with the fear of becoming a 'good friend' or should i 'go in for the kill' and take my chance?
Personally, I'd like to wait and see and 'let it come' but to my experience, this hasn't worked at all for me so i should use the 'make it happen'-method.
However; when i do that and it fails, it might scare her off and I'll have nothing...

I would start slow. But, it wouldn't hurt to be honest and tell her how you really feel. Honesty is the best way to go.

Take it very slowly and gradually tell her how you feel over a course of time.