ma_137 wrote:
So i've been talking to this lady for about two weeks now. Due to unfortunate transportation circumstances, I cannot always see her as often as I want, but I visited her a few times at school. Anyway, we chat on the phone every day for hours. We talk online and we've exchanged some fairly intimate information to one another . She compliments me, I compliment her and I think she digs me. Were forever flirting with one another
I want to set up a date, as soon as my car is out of the shop, but I'm wondering....How can I segue this from a really good friendship into something more? I seem to be everyone's "friend" guy. I"ve got about 6 female friends and no GF to speak of...I really like her, and wouldn't mind being her friend, but I dont' want her to be the next. I really like this girl. So please, someone chime in on this.
Just be honest, when you ask her on a date, say it's a date. Be sure to be extra romantic to show you're genuine intentions.
The biggest thing to risk the friendship is sex. So just don't go there just yet. I wouldn't recomend it anyways. I personally am oposed to sex before marraige, but asking some people to go that far is not exactly a good idea in this day and age.
That is my advice.
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ThunderFox
a.k.a. Laughing Fox
"Well it's exactly the same . . .
But, Vash the Stampede's idea of 'kin'
stretches way beyond the norm."
-- Trigun Maximum 1; by Yasuhiro Nightow
02 Sep 2005, 9:07 pm
/me says in my best Barry White voice Ohhhhh yeah....it's alriiiight.
