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airbikecop
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27 Sep 2005, 7:22 pm

Things with women aren't going good at college -- all of 'em appear to be taken. It's a mess. Lots of women are taken, married, have kids or are expecting, which is kind of messed up.

Pref. Upstate, and I don't consider rochester area upstate. I mean right next to the border, literally.



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27 Sep 2005, 7:42 pm

The college dating scene is absurdly competitive. I hope you do better in finding a woman who's not in that scene.



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27 Sep 2005, 8:47 pm

What am I to do?

I tried having a relationship with a coworker, we even went on a date, however... she doesn't have any plans in life and is too busy to have a relationship and or go on any future dates.

I'm a freshman in college, so dating a highschooler is wrong, or is it?



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27 Sep 2005, 9:18 pm

airbikecop wrote:
What am I to do?

I tried having a relationship with a coworker, we even went on a date, however... she doesn't have any plans in life and is too busy to have a relationship and or go on any future dates.

I'm a freshman in college, so dating a highschooler is wrong, or is it?


If you date a highschooler, people will think you're a creep. In my opinion, it's the age difference that is more important. If you're a freshman who is 18 or 19, and you date a highschooler who is 17 or 18, that seems ok.



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27 Sep 2005, 9:25 pm

lowfreq50 wrote:
If you date a highschooler, people will think you're a creep. In my opinion, it's the age difference that is more important. If you're a freshman who is 18 or 19, and you date a highschooler who is 17 or 18, that seems ok.


Owwww....really? So 14 and 17 shouldn't date? 3 years doesn't really seem like much at that point in life. I say once your 16 or older, 3 years is the limit if you're trying to be socially acceptable. Well, maybe 2. Age shouldn't matter, I'm concerned with maturity level more.


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27 Sep 2005, 9:52 pm

Ok, so dating a highschooler makes me look like a creep, what scene to go to next?



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27 Sep 2005, 10:10 pm

airbikecop wrote:
what scene to go to next?


Brownies, imho.



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27 Sep 2005, 10:14 pm

Sarcastic_Name wrote:
lowfreq50 wrote:
If you date a highschooler, people will think you're a creep. In my opinion, it's the age difference that is more important. If you're a freshman who is 18 or 19, and you date a highschooler who is 17 or 18, that seems ok.


Owwww....really? So 14 and 17 shouldn't date? 3 years doesn't really seem like much at that point in life. I say once your 16 or older, 3 years is the limit if you're trying to be socially acceptable. Well, maybe 2. Age shouldn't matter, I'm concerned with maturity level more.


I believe you have it backwards. A 3 year age difference for teenagers is a huge developemental difference.

The difference btw 14 and 17 is vast compared to 20 and 23.



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27 Sep 2005, 10:16 pm

lowfreq50 wrote:
A 3 year age difference for teenagers is a huge developemental difference.
The difference btw 14 and 17 is vast compared to 20 and 23.


Yes, i agree.



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28 Sep 2005, 2:22 pm

You can find a lot of good ones around there, airbikecop.


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29 Sep 2005, 8:25 pm

Where? College? Doesn't look too good...



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30 Sep 2005, 2:27 pm

Yes, if you look around, you can find a nice person, anywhere.


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