Ghosting my friend on whatsapp

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Jamesy
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05 Jan 2026, 12:21 pm

One of my friends held hands with a woman in a nightclub. He drove her home and they kissed (may have even done more) but apparently she has not responded to him/ghosted his messages on whatasapp.

Do you think that's quite rude of her to all of a sudden ignore him?


He's 39 and she's 21 by the way. My friend though is Chinese and 5ft6 so he looks a lot younger than he is.



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07 Jan 2026, 11:44 am

Maybe she found out his real age.



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10 Jan 2026, 12:25 am

She figures that he's too old for her.


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10 Jan 2026, 11:49 am

I'm betting she was intoxicated at the time. She may have only been interested in a one night stand thing or she had second thoughts after she got home.


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