would you get with a girl if she is overweight?

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I was engaged to a girl on WrongPlanet about a year ago, and richardbenson teased her about her weight endlessly and made her cry.

As for my wife, I weigh 100 pounds more than her.
But that's because she only weighs 80 pounds!

oh for crying out loud. yeah i remember that

what did i say? i dont remember

If she wasn't ugly.

Honestly I'm picky as f**k
I like blondes mainly, big boobs, slim, not really thin to the point that it seems like i'm banging a corpse
I kind of chose two girls at my school, called Jess and Madi, both of whom I am somehow madly in love with, fickle crappy emotions, thing is I only look at physical body cause i'm a bit hollow inside, kind of dead so I don't care for personality much, but I do have limits

I like woman of all sizes
a lot of it is personality for me
Some of my fondest memories
of relationships are with big beautiful women
Ive courted my share of dainty ones as well
Chemistry and common interest and a little bit of care
Compassion and respect
these things are essential if you are going to
have any chance with any respectable man or women
really I think imperfections are what make things unique
and"beautiful".....:Salthough i will admit hey Im maybe not going hook up with a broad
that looks like and or carries herself like Atila the hun
if you really think about it if your chances are slim already because of limited social exp/skills
Do you really think your chance is any better if you go around thinking..
I dont do fat chicks?lol:)

Yes, I guess we Aspie women all should apologize now, for not looking like Heather Kuzmich for you. Oh, I'm so sorry we're all not poor pretty things, who go on Top Model, then cry about how much they suffer when they're automatically accepted simply for being born good looking.

Maybe you should just avoid all women then, or even better, become asexual. People's bodies can smell, it's not something that only happens to fat women. I'm sorry, life didn't work out so that every woman smells like roses, when they get intimate with you. Maybe the real problem, is you are afraid of true intimacy, or incapable of it. When you find someone you truely love, things like that will be insignificant. I have little hope now seeing that as happening, since you see woman first as bodies, before you see them as people.

I can't really decide if it's sad or just horribly predictable. If you want devster, pm me, and I will give you resources for helping out other women who suffer from size prejudice. The reason I'm not posting anything here, is the last thing we need is more trolls, finding those sites and posting hate messages there.

I think what's sad is people's inability to understand that the fat are prejudiced against almost in the same way Aspies are. They are told their exsistance is a burden on others, and that they should change. How about focusing on what we have in common, instead of creating a divide by attacking others who are considered outcasts by society.

I would post a link to Big Fat Facts to explain this, but seeing as most people like to tear down the site, claiming it isn't substantiated, their references aren't right..or whatever. I don't know if it's an Aspie thing to do that, or what. I think if you want the url, pm me. I would hate to see this thread devolved into another "Oh the dumb fatties are all in denial look, they don't understand that they're harming themselves" discussion.

That is what it tends to come down to, I have had people ask me in the chat when I say I'm fat do you exercise, what do you eat. Neither should be of consequence, it's nobody's issue except mine and my doctors. Most fat people eat healthier than thin people, who do not have the daily constant harassment and pressure to eat right, in order to pacify fat haters or fat haters who claim "They're only concerned about your health" as a cover. If people really cared about fat people's health, they'd support HAES, Healthy Activity at Every Size. They'd support intuitive eating, and the scientifically found reality that people come with different genetically pre-set weight points. That everyone cannot loose weight and stay that way without harming themselves. That Weight-Loss Surgery is little more than a stomach lobotomy, and only a medical procedure that has been proven to do more harm than good, would be practiced on people who are considered undesirables, which has happened many times before in history mind you.

Think about that in regards to Chelation on Autistic children, or the other snake oil cures that have been tested on them, even if some of those Autistic children have died from the human experimentation performed on them. How every day we hear how people want to "cure" us for our own good, and how we must be too "ret*d" or stupid to understand what is the best for us. Much like how people assume fat people must be idiots, and must be fat because they cannot stop eating.

Perhaps Aspies find themselves more in relationships with fat women, because fat women share the same understanding that we have which comes from living a life through adversity. Maybe some of the guys posting here are beating up on fat woman, in a round-a-bout way of beating up on themselves for being different, or taking out being different on fat women.

Perhaps it's just as simple as men are immature, and they will only validate a woman who looks like a sex toy to them. Oh I'm sorry, was that insulting, do you dislike that I pointed out men aren't perfect? For all the grief women get daily for not looking like some perfect supermodel, maybe what needs to happen is for the men who post a thread and contribute to one like this with fat hate, have it thrown into their face that they're not perfect either. I mean, would you like it if the women on Wrongplanet started a thread talking about how they would never date a man with a small dick?

Protip: find the one perpendicular to all the others... handles go across the body, not up-down...


As violet said, smell is not correlated with body size. Granted, a person who is not mindful of their body can both be fat and practice poor hygiene, but I tend to practice good hygiene (daily showering, twice if I exert myself, daily brushing of teeth, etc) since I care about my body, but on the other hand I'm a compulsive overeater...


weight applied over a larger surface area is actually less crushing. If you want crushing, find one of those female bodybuilders...


Did anyone say you have to multitask?


work out a little bit? Get those back muscles up to snuff there... My back can support more than my own body weight (which is considerable in its own right...)

Also, learn the fireman's carry. Even weaker people can lift other people using that...



Well at least you still have some sense...

ToadOfSteel, FTW!

How much some one turns you on doesnt always have to do with what they look like. It is more complexed than that. Years ago now but I had a bf once that thought I was gorgeous and could be a model and it was raahh raa ra. Everyone was treating me like I was the most beautiful girl because of the way I looked.
That isnt right and it gives people a false sense of confidence.
My bf didnt get turned on by me. He got turned on by looking at my ass.

We never talked much to each other and when we did we argued. Our personality never really meshed and our relationship never went past that of being about sex. If it had of our relationship would have lasted much longer. I called it off because it was just
meaningless.

I am this sexy chick and he thinks he has it made. I am standing with my back against the wall and I go to him, 'orh come here' and he comes up to me with this dumb love look on his face and I wrap my arms around him as hard as I can and then he is trying to escape because I farted and I am like
this

I did this a few more times until he finalised realised that the only time I wanted to hug him was when I farted. I thought it was really fun and it was the only way outside of sex, that I could show my true affection.

So definetly go for a hot chick just for sex.

That's just... cruel and unusual...

If you're so into ripping some, at least just provide some audio indication that you are in the process thereof...

overweight could mean a few pounds or it could mean obese. I dated a girl who I wouldn't say was fat, but definitely wasn't skinny.

Try using another term besides obese, obese is a medicalization of a non-exsistant problem, simply invented to sell diet products and unneeded weight loss surgeries. The BMI dropped down a few points, and overnight thousands of people who were considered of average weight, became obese. So it is also a faulty and inaccurate measurement of someone's health. In short, obese simply serves to medicalize that which is a natural weight diversity in human beings.

The whole hugging him while farting thing, reminds me of Ren & Stimpy.