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Jamesy
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18 Jan 2009, 8:00 pm

I may find this harder then some because I have semantic pragmantic communication disorder and aspergers syndrome. Anyway if thier is a girl who fancies me but I don't like her back how can I tell them I am not interested! I have managed to get the message to one or 2 girls in the past that I was not interetested in them with success. But just for future preference I need to learn perhaps more techniques to show I don't like them back esspecially for ones that persist in chasing after me.



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18 Jan 2009, 8:14 pm

Simple. You tell them.

Think of being offered the most disgusting food you can imagine (sushi, liver, balut, et cetera), then politely and firmly say the first thought that comes to mind.


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18 Jan 2009, 8:31 pm

Something that has worked for me in the past is whenever they approach you, pretend to be really really interested in something else, like reading a book.


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20 Jan 2009, 5:14 pm

Fnord wrote:
Simple. You tell them.

Think of being offered the most disgusting food you can imagine (sushi, liver, balut, et cetera), then politely and firmly say the first thought that comes to mind.


Please don't do this.
There's no reason to use a sledgehammer when a simple firm application will do just as well. Don't destroy the person or lose a future ally.

Just don't be overly polite, and don't lead them on. Don't let her make a date with you, don't agree to spend time together, she'll get the hint.



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21 Jan 2009, 9:28 am

The last girl who chased after me was a redhead and it took her like 6 months to firmly get the hint.