Green light or f*** it?

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So i've been talking to someone for a week or two now on and off. She seems like she may have some interest, although it could also work as she saw me for the shy person that I was inside and reached out. We started talking after she sent me a request on myspace. She sent a long message and her phone number if I "ever wanted to hang out or just chit chat." When we were hanging out over on her front yard she was texting me even though I was in the same area as her. We were sitting in the back of someones truck and with something I said she came over and sat next to me, saying "I can't hear you over there". When I was leaving, I went over to say goodbye and she told me "answer your texts". Then she texts me as i'm heading out. A few other things she said too seemed to stick with me, such as asking who the girl in my myspace pic was and if I planned on moving back to michigan. I've always been off though with signals, and have mistaken friendliness for signals before. It seems like all the other girls i've tried to get together with made the first move also and I managed to f*** them up too. As far as the way I talk and the things I have to say, most people don't see me any differently until they get to know me well, then certain things click. The question is was she interested or just very friendly? Should I go after her or just let it play out?

From my side of things, she seems interested. It sounds like she wants to be around you and she's consistently making sure she has your attention.

She wants you!

asking who the girl in the myspace pic was - making sure you're not involved with someone else.
asking if you planned on moving back to michigan - checking if it might be a long term thing.

VERY good signs, don't screw this!

From what you're describing it sounds like this is the kind of relationship carries a window of opportunity - it sounds like that you're at the right time to seize it and make a forward move on her. If you wait another week she may lose interest altogether, girls can be fickle like that.

also remember it's always better to do something you want to do and f**k up than look back and wonder what would have happened

my problem is moving it forward. I never seem to find the right words-or the nerve-to do this.

Agreed!

I'd always rather regret something I've done that didn't work out than regret something I didn't and forever more be wondering "What if..." wondering if things might have worked out differently and maybe I missed a good opportunity.

xkcd!

I love his comic!

^LMAO

Seconded.

i say be friends for a while and get to know her. you don't want to take things too fast (i learned this one the hard way). however, it's up to BOTH of you to decide how fast and how far you want to go