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23 Mar 2009, 2:57 pm

How could I meet a female aspie in southwestern Ontario around KW who is between the ages of 17-23? Any ideas to get me started?



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23 Mar 2009, 2:59 pm

dor you, go to a knitting club. you can meet women there. start a relaxing hobby. enjoy conversation.

i want an aspie gf too... any aspie chicks in NE?


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23 Mar 2009, 3:11 pm

i am not fond of 99% of aspie girls lol



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23 Mar 2009, 3:12 pm

Kilroy wrote:
i am not fond of 99% of aspie girls lol


good - less competition for me and my buddy Padium.


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23 Mar 2009, 4:11 pm

Kilroy wrote:
i am not fond of 99% of aspie girls lol

why is that?



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23 Mar 2009, 4:40 pm

buryuntime wrote:
Kilroy wrote:
i am not fond of 99% of aspie girls lol

why is that?


probably because he has not met any aspie girls. he is just making an assumption.


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23 Mar 2009, 4:43 pm

Or maybe he just prefers NTs.



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23 Mar 2009, 4:49 pm

It's stupid to be 'racist' like that ,or should we invent a new word called aspiesist?



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23 Mar 2009, 5:04 pm

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It's stupid to be 'racist' like that ,or should we invent a new word called aspiesist?


Don't think I haven't thought this through, there a lot of downsides to having a relationship with someone on the spectrum, but it is something that with the potential upsides, would be worth it for me. I also would be fine with a relationship with an NT, its just that my first choice would be an aspie. Its like some people will not marry outside their own race or religion, or how some people would prefer to marry one specific race. It is not a form of racism to have a preference for that kind of relationship.



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23 Mar 2009, 5:05 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:
It's stupid to be 'racist' like that ,or should we invent a new word called aspiesist?


Anti-aspieist


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23 Mar 2009, 5:26 pm

Any aspie boys in the midlands, england? :wink:
I'd go out with an aspie, infact my 2 fave friends are and I fancy the pants off both of them heehee


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23 Mar 2009, 7:36 pm

I'm almost at the point where I would refuse to date an NT girl. I have yet to meet an NT girl near where I live who isn't snobbish in an "aspiesist" way, yet is also somewhere around age 17. (I like that word "aspiesist" by the way) The problem is, when it comes to meeting aspie girls, I'm limited to my group that my psychologist runs, but it's better than having no group at all.

Also, I doubt there are any aspie girls here on WP that live in or near Nebraska, US, let alone also around age 17. If I am wrong in this assumption, please let me know!



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24 Mar 2009, 1:19 am

lol @ looking for love online



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24 Mar 2009, 1:47 am

I'm allowed to have my own opinions :roll:
and yeah I prefer NTs

a lot of aspie girl tend to be boring asexuals confined souly in their own obsessions
yes there are ones who aren't but I seem to have "a;l the luck: lol



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28 Mar 2009, 5:44 am

I don't know. I've never met an Aspie girl in real life or least I wasn't aware of doing so. I've taken a look at Aspie girls on here and You Tube and there are definitely some wonderful girls in the community. The ones I saw were mostly taken though and probably wouldn't be interested in me anyways.



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28 Mar 2009, 6:32 am

NextFact wrote:
lol @ looking for love online


I don't think it's so bad, I know many who have found people online, fallen in love, met in person and got married and all, it works for some while it doesn't for others. It's more of a hit and miss thing. I recently met one of my best friends from online and we hit it off really well, he's coming back to visit in summer again and hopefully things will work out. :)